discussion NTR is not a dream, its a nightmare. Just say NO to NTR!

[Nowaise]

Now THIS is a hate train I will happily board. Let me die on my hill of happy, healthy relationships.

 

[xXxLunaxXx]

I never had a problem with NTR, and honestly, I don't understand the hate at all.

 

[Intorpecido]

I never had a problem with NTR, and honestly, I don't understand the hate at all.

I say YES to NTR... because i dont understand the hate...why hates much guys NTR so much?

sorry for my large signature, but i hate the whitespace so much...

I don’t hate NTR content. I have no problem with it in games that are actually made for netorare. What I hate is when a game promises non-NTR routes, but still leaks NTR into the rest of it.

I don’t really get the fetish of men who say they’re straight but seem more interested in men than women. They want one woman, but also half a dozen naked guys around her.

What bothers me is that NTR isn’t just about cheating. It comes with a whole culture around it, and that culture gets shoved into the story so heavily that it ends up ruining the experience for people who aren’t even on that route. That’s what made me hate it, and honestly, I think that hatred is justified.

The MC in NTR usually gets the same treatment: short, small dick, can’t be changed, dumb, pathetic, arrogant, a loser. When I play a character, if he’s Black, I want a BBC; if he’s White, I want a BWC — not some loser MC.

The love interests change too. Once NTR is added, they stop showing real sexual interest in the MC. The whole dynamic changes, and she can’t really show sexual satisfaction anymore because everything has to serve the netorare route. Developers also keep reusing the same scenes for both routes, and the quality of the writing and the sexual buildup just isn’t the same.

Another thing is that you always have to step in so the girl doesn’t end up sitting on some random dick she just met, which kills the whole mystique of the love interest.

And then there are all the other common insertions: constant talk about other guys’ huge cocks, sex scenes that shouldn’t even exist because the MC doesn’t satisfy her in bed, and other weird stuff. A lot of times they don’t even bother filling in the story properly, with sudden cuts and boys disappearing and later coming back with their friend... I could list a lot more.

Unlike action fetishes, where you can usually just skip or cut that content in a game, NTR affects way more than just the scene it appears in.

How many NTR stories do you know where the MC has the bigger dick, lasts for hours, and cums a bucket of sperm, while the bull has a small dick and premature ejaculation?

I don’t think the people who like netorare would even enjoy the kind of game above, so why should I, as a fan of harem and incest, have to accept and enjoy games where the MC is a powerless loser, or incest where the MC doesn’t have sex with anyone?

I’m tired of seeing netorare pushed everywhere. If developers want to add routes for harem or incest, they should build those routes properly and stop recycling NTR elements into them. It leaks into everything, and paying attention to those details matters — that’s what creates the hate.

 

[Nowaise]

I don’t hate NTR content. I have no problem with it in games that are actually made for netorare. What I hate is when a game promises non-NTR routes, but still leaks NTR into the rest of it.

I don’t really get the fetish of men who say they’re straight but seem more interested in men than women. They want one woman, but also half a dozen naked guys around her.

What bothers me is that NTR isn’t just about cheating. It comes with a whole culture around it, and that culture gets shoved into the story so heavily that it ends up ruining the experience for people who aren’t even on that route. That’s what made me hate it, and honestly, I think that hatred is justified.

The MC in NTR usually gets the same treatment: short, small dick, can’t be changed, dumb, pathetic, arrogant, a loser. When I play a character, if he’s Black, I want a BBC; if he’s White, I want a BWC — not some loser MC.

The love interests change too. Once NTR is added, they stop showing real sexual interest in the MC. The whole dynamic changes, and she can’t really show sexual satisfaction anymore because everything has to serve the netorare route. Developers also keep reusing the same scenes for both routes, and the quality of the writing and the sexual buildup just isn’t the same.

Another thing is that you always have to step in so the girl doesn’t end up sitting on some random dick she just met, which kills the whole mystique of the love interest.

And then there are all the other common insertions: constant talk about other guys’ huge cocks, sex scenes that shouldn’t even exist because the MC doesn’t satisfy her in bed, and other weird stuff. A lot of times they don’t even bother filling in the story properly, with sudden cuts and boys disappearing and later coming back with their friend... I could list a lot more.

Unlike action fetishes, where you can usually just skip or cut that content in a game, NTR affects way more than just the scene it appears in.

How many NTR stories do you know where the MC has the bigger dick, lasts for hours, and cums a bucket of sperm, while the bull has a small dick and premature ejaculation?

I don’t think the people who like netorare would even enjoy the kind of game above, so why should I, as a fan of harem and incest, have to accept and enjoy games where the MC is a powerless loser, or incest where the MC doesn’t have sex with anyone?

I’m tired of seeing netorare pushed everywhere. If developers want to add routes for harem or incest, they should build those routes properly and stop recycling NTR elements into them. It leaks into everything, and paying attention to those details matters — that’s what creates the hate.

I don't think I've ever read a more articulate summary of reasons why I didn't even knew I hated NTR.

 

[Eve D'Apple]

Not respecting NTR weirdos is doing them a kindness, after all it's what they want.

 

[Aslatra]

Honestly, it's really just a bummer. In principal, I don't really care because I'm not putting myself in the main character's shoes to get so invested that it feels like a personal betrayal to me, but every time I've tried to feel out an NTR game, it's always the same garbage of 'Wow, MC is pathetic' or 'Oh, my girl is cheating and I'm sad and it hurts' which.. sure, the latter makes sense, but as someone whose feelings are that it's meh and in concept it WOULD be fine, it's just really awkward for me to be watching a sex scene and have the MC be discussing how they're sad and having a panic attack but can't look away and are going to cry, when I could literally just play anything the fuck else.