discussion do you think sharing and NTR are the same?

[Skrotum]

I don't think sharing and NTR are the same, but I don't care much for both.

 

[Yoneknwhiam]

I don't know if I'm the odd one out here but I don't mind ntr or sharing since I control the mc, maybe it's because you imagine that you are the mc but I see it from a third person's viewpoint

 

[korochan48]

I don't know if I'm the odd one out here but I don't mind ntr or sharing since I control the mc, maybe it's because you imagine that you are the mc but I see it from a third person's viewpoint

That's how I always play AVN I don't really imagine myself as the MC rather I'm a reader but also kind of director deciding choices to pick an interesting outcome in a story.

 

[Cloppy]

There is a difference between the two for sure. NTR means one person gets screwed out and is just the pathetic spectator.

Sharing on the other hand is disgusting depending on the type of sharing.
If you're letting some other dude have a turn porking your girl, that's a big no. She's mine, not yours. It's emasculate in my book. In a lot of real life cases, the dude who shares his girl ends up getting cucked.
On the other hand, if you're a dude who has a harem of girls all to yourself, sharing you amongst each other, and you can handle all of them that's called being a chad.

 

[TravelerofTime&Space]

not the same

 

[RobBobSlam10]

Sharing always has drawbacks. I am not into sharing or ntr but one day I was strolling through a porn site and saw a couple streaming together, then I was like okay good for them. Next stream the guy invited his friend and still was like okay good for them. But during said stream, you could see she felt a hell of a lot better with the new guy and didn't want to do anything with her boyfriend only his friend. The next stream chick left her boyfriend for the guy's friend and started streaming together while she dumped her boyfriend.

Shit a guy on the porn site even broke the video down and explained in the key moments she changed. Felt like I was watching a youtube video and not porn.
In games or videos, it is fine since it doesn't affect me but never would I share.

So do I think they are the same thing? Yes and no. While sharing isn't the same thing it can become it if you aren't better than the person you are sharing with. And this goes both ways for both males and females.

 

[Ryuji]

Sharing is a choice, you want that and like to see you partner with someone else, NTR is meant to cause distress to one of the partners, and they generally don't know for most of the story, and will not like not even a little when they discover, this is one of the things I see a lot of people don't understand the difference of what NTR, and other things like netori, cuckolding etc means, they only consider everything that as cheating, or the more nonsensical definition of netorare I have seen is when a married woman that the MC will try to "conquer" is having sex with their husband is considered netorare.

 

[HandholdDegen]

Sharing is a choice, you want that and like to see you partner with someone else, NTR is meant to cause distress to one of the partners, and they generally don't know for most of the story, and will not like not even a little when they discover, this is one of the things I see a lot of people don't understand the difference of what NTR, and other things like netori, cuckolding etc

Yeah, this. NTR is confusing cos it is an abbreviation for all three categories of partner sharing/stealing
Netorare: Partner being stolen causing feelings of jealousy and loss
Netori: Stealing someone else's partner, either with them knowing about it or not
Netorase: Partner sharing (reciprocal or not)

Sharing is definitely Netorase, so shouldn't be labled NTR which most people use for Netorare.

That said, I don't particularly use the sharing tag as it usually involves people outside of a harem. I prefer a Harem setting where everyone is everyone else's partner too instead.
Also, usually in swinging and open relationships someone is happier about it that the other partner.

 

[perikolui]

I honestly don't know, but I love cuckold type games, it's a shame there are so few

 

[jjx]

While clearly 2 distinct things, they tick the same boxes for me. NTR is a bit more nuanced than "sharing", different emotional setting being the key thing.

I can take (and enjoy) either.

 

[User_120092]

No. Consensual versus unknowingly duped.

 

[Riyuko00]

do you think swinging and cheating are the same?​

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[Loliholic]

do you think swinging and cheating are the same?​

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For most guys its very different. Swinging means their girl could finally get an orgasm while cheating means disappointing another girl...

 

[xxxlugexxx]

practically the same, one with consent the other not.

 

[Trickster]

no, I see it as two different things

 

[waterbeast509]

For me they are very different. For instance, if an MC shares a LI as a form of humiliation and a show of dominance, it is very different than being cucked by his wife. Both of those examples are different than consensual sharing where the power dynamic stays balanced.

Personally, I like consensual sharing, and sharing as a form of humiliation, but hate traditional NTR in my games, and in real life for that matter. Never been cucked, but have definitely shared with my participation. In games my favorite is as the humiliation route.

 

[Dely5064]

Neither are my thing , no NTR or sharing , what's mine is mine

 

[DannyO24]

Sharing and NTR tend to go hand and hand, sometimes sharing leads to NTR or a person is shared because they got NTR'd but at the end of the day they are separate. There's plenty of games and hentai where a person gets shared but they don't get NTR'd.

 

[verybadboye]

well depends if by ntr you mean netorare or netorase. not the same as netorare but the same as netorase.

 

[JoeTheMc84]

Sharing always has drawbacks. I am not into sharing or ntr but one day I was strolling through a porn site and saw a couple streaming together, then I was like okay good for them. Next stream the guy invited his friend and still was like okay good for them. But during said stream, you could see she felt a hell of a lot better with the new guy and didn't want to do anything with her boyfriend only his friend. The next stream chick left her boyfriend for the guy's friend and started streaming together while she dumped her boyfriend.

Shit a guy on the porn site even broke the video down and explained in the key moments she changed. Felt like I was watching a youtube video and not porn.
In games or videos, it is fine since it doesn't affect me but never would I share.

So do I think they are the same thing? Yes and no. While sharing isn't the same thing it can become it if you aren't better than the person you are sharing with. And this goes both ways for both males and females.

I know your post is from a few months ago, but I just saw it, and it reminded me of something I saw once from the opposite side, so to speak. I once saw a porn video that I didn't know was sharing until after it had started. It was like watching a train wreck and I couldn't look away, I don't think I could have gotten hard watching it if my life depended on it, and it honestly put me off porn in general for a long time. The chick kept trying to get her husband involved, talking to him, and even at one point when he was close to her she reached for him and he literally pushed her away. You could tell she was just doing it for him. Her husband didn't even get hard until the other guy came inside her and then the husband basically took three pumps in the sloppy seconds and came too. Imagine being a woman who loves a guy and the only way he can even get hard is when some other guy bangs you first and he won't even let you touch him until the other guy is done.

So for me that was a bit of a defining moment when it came to my understanding of what "sharing" really was.

NTR is considered by most non-Japanese people to be when a slut cheats on a guy. Though in Japan a guy could be walking home from work and turn down an alley and see a random whore getting fucked, then take another route and see it again, repeat a few times, and the video would be called, "I got NTRed over and over on the way home from work," because there it can just be seeing (or even hearing about) any two other people fucking.

Sharing is one of two things. Either when a slut convince her man to let someone else fuck her because she wants to cheat but wants permission first and that almost always ends up how you're example went, because women cannot equally respect two men (and if she respected her first man she wouldn't even bring it up) and one will be "better" than the other. The internet is filled with "my wife's boyfriend" stories where the other guy is clearly the one she cares about and the former boyfriend/husband is treated like a third wheel at best and often as a man-child that the wife/girlfriend and her new guy just tolerate because he pays the bills or something but neither of them respects.

The other type of sharing is like what I saw, a women who is basically being forced into it out of devotion to a piece of shit guy who doesn't really care about her and is using her like a trading card for his sexual enjoyment and doesn't give a shit if she is really into it or not and usually it turns out the guy is gay or otherwise ends up leaving her anyway, or she finally gets that he isn't worth it and leaves him.

So basically if the woman wants it then she's just a whore and it is NTR with an extra step because she doesn't care about her starting man just didn't want to "cheat." Or the woman is basically being forced into it and essentially being "raped" by men she wouldn't fuck if the man she does care about wasn't making her do it and it will eventually destroy her and their relationship.

So are NTR and sharing the same, well, "no," but in every way that matters, yes, they are the same, they are built on the same emotions as a foundation and eventually end up in the same place. That's my two-cents at least.