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[BrodyPresto]

Eh, it's pretty standard speak in bdsm circles. It's a specific style, different ties than western.

@Emily.Everson

Fuck my ignorant ass. I’m not well-versed in the ways of BDSM.

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[Paradigminant]

@Emily.Everson

Fuck my ignorant ass. I’m not well-versed in the ways of BDSM.

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Well if you ever get the urge, I highly recommend it, lots of fun! Just make sure you do your research first, some stuff is more dangerous than common sense would suggest.

 

[Emily.Everson]

Fuck my ignorant ass. I’m not well-versed in the ways of BDSM

It's okay, not super versed in it myself, they are just in all sorts of games I've played. @Paradigminant is schooling me here. Once you get to niche kinks, its like Pokemon (gotta catch 'em all) and every niche kink is all there at once.

 

[BrodyPresto]

Well if you ever get the urge, I highly recommend it, lots of fun! Just make sure you do your research first, some stuff is more dangerous than common sense would suggest.

You make it sound like I’ve got someone to practice bondage on I mean, I could probably “bondage” my dog if you want me to.

 

[ShrimpFried]

@ShrimpFried for the puzzle day daily challenge (24 May) I'd like to do an interactive javascript puzzle, like what I did with my arkanoid. What do you think?

I don't see any problem with it so go ahead. I'd love to see what you make.

 

[Paradigminant]

You make it sound like I’ve got someone to practice bondage on I mean, I could probably “bondage” my dog if you want me to.

You're making me go teacher-mode here lol. So there's likely people or even clubs/classes somewhere near you if you do a little searching. But yes, before you tie anyone else up, practice on yourself. Basic wrist ties, etc. Learn how different rope behaves, how it feels, changes over time, etc.

 

[BrodyPresto]

You're making me go teacher-mode here lol. So there's likely people or even clubs/classes somewhere near you if you do a little searching. But yes, before you tie anyone else up, practice on yourself. Basic wrist ties, etc. Learn how different rope behaves, how it feels, changes over time, etc.

I’m just teasing, but thanks for taking it seriously and giving genuine helpful advice.

 

[Paradigminant]

I guess if anyone else has any questions, feel free to ask. Certainly not the expert of experts, but I've done my homework and have a certain set of skills lol

 

[cbarnes1551]

All this bondage talk reminds me of that manga called nana & kaoru. It got me into bondage which then I found out that I'm not into it but it does talk about the background prep that goes into a bondage session. Totally recommend if anyone is interested and the art is pretty good

 

[Redyscom]

Oh yeah, now that I think of it, I wanted to share this with you guys. It's a huge template for choosing your favorite Pokémon by type, generation, legendary status, and so on. It has tons of options. I was filling it out with my brother.

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This is mine

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This is my brother's

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[Emily.Everson]

I like to consider a blindfold and and being strapped to the bed while my vanilla ass gets a light slap as BSDM, but I'd get a full blown panic attack if I attempted the things the real crowd talks about. Some stories can be quite hot though. Fantasy and Reality rarely fit together well.

 

[Redyscom]

I like to consider a blindfold and and being strapped to the bed while my vanilla ass gets a light slap as BSDM, but I'd get a full blown panic attack if I attempted the things the real crowd talks about. Some stories can be quite hot though. Fantasy and Reality rarely fit together well.

True, it's more fun to talk about the good parts and when everything goes well than to talk about the reality where things don't usually go so well.

 

[Paradigminant]

I like to consider a blindfold and and being strapped to the bed while my vanilla ass gets a light slap as BSDM, but I'd get a full blown panic attack if I attempted the things the real crowd talks about. Some stories can be quite hot though. Fantasy and Reality rarely fit together well.

That absolutely qualifies. A blindfold is one of my favorite things. You don't just start extreme. You build up to it. Obviously not everything can or should be attempted, but with the right person, you can make quite a bit of fantasy real, or real enough.

 

[uBfUZJjR1V]

Sorry to burst your bubble, but they removed the donation, or what we called the trading, feature a while back. Long-time members and mods would sometimes see if you were trustworthy and give you enough to buy Member+ right away. I got like three offers myself, lol. People here gave when they could, which they can’t do anymore since the feature got removed.

Oh well… I guess they made it harder for a reason. It sounds like it used to be much easier to get Member+ in the past, but I just have to keep up the grind.

 

[Redyscom]

That absolutely qualifies. A blindfold is one of my favorite things. You don't just start extreme. You build up to it. Obviously not everything can or should be attempted, but with the right person, you can make quite a bit of fantasy real, or real enough.

Well... the blindfold is pretty vanilla, but being tied to a bed and spanked—that definitely qualifies as BDSM. The blindfold is just there to add the tension and suspense of not knowing what, when, or where the contact will come from; it enhances the sensation.

 

[Paradigminant]

Well... the blindfold is pretty vanilla, but being tied to a bed and spanked—that definitely qualifies as BDSM. The blindfold is just there to add the tension and suspense of not knowing what, when, or where the contact will come from; it enhances the sensation.

Sensory enhancement, suspense, one tiny bit of giving up control. It might be a 1 on the BDSM scale, but it can turn a 3 into a 7. It's about what it does to the extended foreplay/warmup period. Plus it's cheap, portable, etc lol. Just a lot of bang for the buck with a blindfold.

 

[Redyscom]

Sensory enhancement, suspense, one tiny bit of giving up control. It might be a 1 on the BDSM scale, but it can turn a 3 into a 7. It's about what it does to the extended foreplay/warmup period. Plus it's cheap, portable, etc lol. Just a lot of bang for the buck with a blindfold.

Yep, sensory deprivation is pretty good if you don't want to—or are afraid to—take things further. I can't say that's the case for me, because my friend has a choking fetish, and that was my introduction to hardcore BDSM.
Damn her, I was so happy in the vanilla world, and she had to drag me into all that...

 

[Paradigminant]

Yep, sensory deprivation is pretty good if you don't want to—or are afraid to—take things further. I can't say that's the case for me, because my friend has a choking fetish, and that was my introduction to hardcore BDSM.
Damn her, I was so happy in the vanilla world, and she had to drag me into all that...

Haha yeah, it's hard to go back once you realize just how much fun territory there is to explore. For me it's the depth of trust/connection, how important communication is, etc. And yeah, the sex obviously lol.

 

[Xakorik]

There are some good BDSM based manga.

 

[Emily.Everson]

Who knew that a 1 off dwarven beard joke would get so heart warming and mushy about the trust involved in chokeing out your partner...