To be fair the main complain i and others had about grayzoneposting in ATF was that things were often too real, i've seen several postings of people talking about lusting over real people, their fantasies and etc.. as those 80% i think you mean "that pose as normal people". I'm of the mindset that repressed tendencies tend to grow up like a tumor and explode so they need to be adressed but not fed as that may lead to addiction. Consuming lolisho is ok if done in isolation like most extreme/niche kinks, but it needs a more mature mindset to prevent misunderstandings and malicious acts, and thus it is relegated to closer more controlled places and comunities. When things blur into real life tho, it brings risks both to the place and the person, talking about your fantasies that veer into criminal territory after an interaction with a real person is something that should be done in a much more closed enviroment than just a forum, preferably with professional assistance to keep it healthy and prevent escalation. I'd say at best a supervised (so things don't go criminal) group therapy thread that is deleted later. Tho these are mainly my thoughts rather than pure truth
The grey zone is about real life, not lolisho. To be precise about real life attractions, not real life abuse. I think almost all who go there agree that acting on these attractions is bad, but we might disagree on the reason why it's bad.
The 80% mean 80% of those who have in real life sexually abused a child. True ****philes (as diagnosed by professional psychologists, not self confessed) are the minority among those. Most are attracted to adults and just use children because they are easier victims, present more opportunities, whatever. The exact numbers vary by source, but all agree that ****philes are the minority.
Repression builds up desire, as was learned during the american prohibition time. But you can substitute real children very well with drawings, animations, ai-generated images, stories, sex dolls, ... There are so many things that do not involve any real children ****philes can use to satisfy their desires at least partially. That can lead to addiction in about the same way normal porn and sex toys can for teleiophiles. But taking away those outlets is stupid if you really care about protecting children.
Equally important is the opportunity to comminicate openly with our peers. Social control within peer groups is an important corrective instrument for detecting and controlling problematic behaviour. A **** who is alone with his thoughts might turn down dangerous paths, but if he can communicate openly and without fear his friends will push him back on the right path. The grey zone is such a place and in my opinion actually increases child safety.
The majority of ****philes is actually quite well adjusted and no danger to any child. They definitely don't need therapy. Some few do, but a forum is no place for that.
Our fantasies are just that, and our ability for self control is just as good as with any other person. Do you suspect anyone who is sexually attracted to adult women of being in danger of veering into criminal territory after interacting with a real person? We are actually more conscious of potentially problematic behaviour than the average teleiophile. Self preservation dictates that.
hey I gotta have to ask... what is or
WAS ATF (and Rori)?? from reading these posts, I'm assuming it's about another forum/site. Google ain't helping, naturally most results are about the US Bureau...
was it another forum or sharing site of some sort?!
it seems many - in this thread - migrated from there.
so, a warm welcome to the new ones. hope you enjoy it here and have a good time
ATF is a forum called all the fallen, focussing on loli- and shotacon. It also provides space for discussions about real life ****philia (but anyone promoting child abuse is turned over to authorities).
Rori is short for roriwalrus, a similar forum. Many from ATF are now migrating there.