I think this is why so many remain lurker's. Everytime you write something you expose yourself to get hurt, and not everyone manages to not care what others say.
I have been a member (vbefore I left) and also my rejoin now for probably 2 or so years, and to be honest there was only even one issue that I had, which was nothing more than my mistake on communication break down. Other thn that, yes, people do bitch on at times, and for the most part its just nonsence, so I dont know why you feel this way, unless you had something hapen to you.
If this is the case you (and anyne else with consern) can either report the offendr, or DM a mod for advice, but I write on lurkers a lot, and so far I never had anyone hurtful, or be not caring, although Im sure many dont interest in what I say. Its prt of life.
I fond from my experiance that in rl or online, some will love to talk, others are not interested, then there are those inbetween. I honest dont give shit if people talk or not.
Meaning. I love good chat, but it people dont want then Im not worried. The only time I get my back up is crosing that line and being dissrespectful or just an ashole. Thats where I start caring. Other than this it is up to you/me/us to make effort, or not.
I hope this was in some way helpful. My few cents worth of advice.