discussion Anti-Social & Lurker - Hideout spot

[BrodyPresto]

I'm not sure about any "Top something list". Such lists feel like the top rated stuff on amazon. It's just off.

You don’t get FOMO? That feeling of missing out? Yeah, top-rated stuff can be overrated, but most of it is ranked high for a reason.

Unless we’re talking about top-rated apps on Google Play. I have no idea what makes them appealing. I don’t use Amazon, so maybe the feeling you get is the same.

 

[Twigless Leaf]

You don’t get FOMO? That feeling of missing out? Yeah, top-rated stuff can be overrated, but most of it is ranked high for a reason.

Unless we’re talking about top-rated apps on Google Play. I have no idea what makes them appealing. I don’t use Amazon, so maybe the feeling you get is the same.

I don't have fear in missing out. After all, if I chase this top 50 list, I will miss out another top 50 list.
It's not worth it. Sure I don't get most trends, viral stuff and it's context, but somehow I don't care enough. This would impede my slow roll approach in life.

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[BrodyPresto]

Does anyone have social media or forum recommendations that have a sense of community like this site?

I use Twitter and Reddit, but I often don’t know what to say. Everyone’s already said it, and if I force a comment, it feels insincere.

Here, I can lurk or join the conversation, and there’s always something interesting to discuss. Discord kinda feels like this, but even in the general channels of many servers, the discussions don’t branch out or cover multiple topics like this forum does.

 

[imYuna!]

Does anyone have social media or forum recommendations that have a sense of community like this site?

I use Twitter and Reddit, but I often don’t know what to say. Everyone’s already said it, and if I force a comment, it feels insincere.

Here, I can lurk or join the conversation, and there’s always something interesting to discuss. Discord kinda feels like this, but even in the general channels of many servers, the discussions don’t branch out or cover multiple topics like this forum does.

I don't really use social media, the most I have is a discord account but I mainly just use it to DM people :3 Definitely get what you mean with the sense of community being lost in a lot of social media <3

 

[liwen53043]

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legend

 

[Twigless Leaf]

Does anyone have social media or forum recommendations that have a sense of community like this site?

I use Twitter and Reddit, but I often don’t know what to say. Everyone’s already said it, and if I force a comment, it feels insincere.

Here, I can lurk or join the conversation, and there’s always something interesting to discuss. Discord kinda feels like this, but even in the general channels of many servers, the discussions don’t branch out or cover multiple topics like this forum does.

I don't really use social media, the most I have is a discord account but I mainly just use it to DM people :3 Definitely get what you mean with the sense of community being lost in a lot of social media <3

After all, there was never a time with so much possibility to interact globally. Pubs and clubs are now traded in for channels, forums and servers, that are highly specific in it's purpose. The general threads are just a spam and offtopic buffer, so they not interesting for someone, that is only there for the highly spefic information.
I just saw this kind of interaction like here on forums that specialized in lolcows like Chris Chan and Dragon Lord. Other than that there are pretty active Imageboards like the 2/4/8 chans.

 

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[imYuna!]

After all, there was never a time with so much possibility to interact globally. Pubs and clubs are now traded in for channels, forums and servers, that are highly specific in it's purpose. The general threads are just a spam and offtopic buffer, so they not interesting for someone, that is only there for the highly spefic information.
I just saw this kind of interaction like here on forums that specialized in lolcows like Chris Chan and Dragon Lord. Other than that there are pretty active Imageboards like the 2/4/8 chans.

I never interacted with those forums since they came off like communities solely united on sharing their hate of other people :c kind of the worst parts of cliques from my limited exposure to them

 

[liwen53043]

Does anyone have social media or forum recommendations that have a sense of community like this site?

I use Twitter and Reddit, but I often don’t know what to say. Everyone’s already said it, and if I force a comment, it feels insincere.

Here, I can lurk or join the conversation, and there’s always something interesting to discuss. Discord kinda feels like this, but even in the general channels of many servers, the discussions don’t branch out or cover multiple topics like this forum does.

i'd keep looking around, even on sites like twitter and reddit (which tbh i stay far away from). you found this place right? gotto be another that fits your vibe somewhere else. i second Twigless Leaf on imageboards

 

[justrand0m10]

Best food in the world on your opinion?

Bolognese & pasta in general!

 

[Twigless Leaf]

I never interacted with those forums since they came off like communities solely united on sharing their hate of other people :c kind of the worst parts of cliques from my limited exposure to them

That's unfortunaly what unites and divides people most and creates engagement.
The horny and the hate.

 

[imYuna!]

That's unfortunaly what unites and divides people most and creates engagement.
The horny and the hate.

The horny is fun tho, we like the horny :3

 

[justrand0m10]

Does anyone have social media or forum recommendations that have a sense of community like this site?

I use Twitter and Reddit, but I often don’t know what to say. Everyone’s already said it, and if I force a comment, it feels insincere.

Here, I can lurk or join the conversation, and there’s always something interesting to discuss. Discord kinda feels like this, but even in the general channels of many servers, the discussions don’t branch out or cover multiple topics like this forum does.

I would say Discord but you need to find a good server that relates to you and not just try to fit in, reddit and twitter have too many people already and I at least don't feel that connected with the conversation there.

 

[Twigless Leaf]

The horny is fun tho, we like the horny :3

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♫ ♪ ♬ The Horny and the Hate.. ♫ ♪ ♬

 

[Necoarked]

Hello again guys! question time! What games did you accidentally came across but you liked them?

 

[liwen53043]

Hello again guys! question time! What games did you accidentally came across but you liked them?

lets just say its the kinda game you come to this site for but i dno if mentioning it is against the rules...

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The horny is fun tho, we like the horny :3

the horny will have its day and defeat the hate

 

[Necoarked]

lets just say its the kinda game you come to this site for but i dno if mentioning it is against the rules...

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the horny will have its day and defeat the hate

Horny is a style of life that only the hornys knows about

 

[MattaMus11MattaMus11's icon]

Hey, no kink shaming please;

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@ImN0tDon @MattaMus11

Let everyone here enjoy their personal perversions in peace.

that kink is fair game because its the only unnatural one

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Hey if my kink is to kink shame.....do not kink shame me...

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What if your kink is to have someone shame your kinks?

 

[BrodyPresto]

That's unfortunaly what unites and divides people most and creates engagement.
The horny and the hate.

How about we combine the ideas, like, “hate-fucking” someone? What do you guys think? Can you hate someone so much that it loops back around into wanting to fuck them?

I mean, cute aggression exists.

Google AI summary:
Cute aggression is the common, involuntary urge to squeeze, bite, or pinch highly adorable creatures (babies, animals) without any actual intent to cause harm.

 

[Twigless Leaf]

What if your kink is to have someone shame your kinks?

Isn't this called cuckolding?