discussion Why don't you like to socialize?

[solcrow]

Only one good friend left. The other one took matters into their hands a few years ago.

I find people exhausting. I can be social and talk a bunch, but afterwards I am mentally done. I feel like most interactions are fake, I don't enjoy current society as a whole.

Like I said, I can socialize, but I hate it. even here on an online forum I'm not fully comfortable. Since I'm not looking to make strong friends, or cause trouble, I find being on forums easy. No expectations.

 

[jdtg1911]

People just suck is the main reason

 

[Sam1]

Well, at least you're honest. If you want to change my life, give me your best recipe for pancakes. I am hungry.

The best recipe for pancake is one you earn for yourself. So I send you on a quest to beat Helltaker. The ending of that game shows the path to what you seek.
There's also a sidequest there to get a recipe for apple pie if you want.

 

[TH1987]

I do like to socialize, I just don't have anyone to socialize with...the only human interaction I have is the people at work...once I leave to head home after work, hermit life

 

[ghostwerx]

Outside of family, I have one really good friend and a few others that I would say are friends. These are people that I can generally relax around and know that they would help hide a body without qeustioning. The rest of the world is filled with people that I don't want to know & likely don't want to know me.

 

[Xypher]

I don't mind socializing, it's just I prefer to keep to myself or a small group of people that has the same interest as me.

 

[noaway]

Too much pressure and commitment. I just stick to my family. I will socialize when I have to but that's about it.

 

[albatross]

I don't get out much, I don't know why.

 

[User_9860]

i got lucky with friends. got pretty bad anxiety but just had good people adopt me into their circles

 

[vandura]

I find people exhausting. I can be social and talk a bunch, but afterwards I am mentally done. I feel like most interactions are fake, I don't enjoy current society as a whole.

Man, this hit! What happened to the good old days when we just talked about cars or sports? It's not that I don't like to socialize, it's just that the list of people I care to socialize with is getting shorter every year.

 

[kakarottooalgo]

It gets exhausting really fast and I end up avoiding my actual close friends for extended periods of time, then eventually they get fed up with my shit and we just drift apart, similar thing with romantic relationships too.
They few friends I have remaining seem to understand that I need space from time to time.

 

[smite22]

IRL people look at me in one of two ways... completely ignored or with pity. The life of being confined to a wheelchair when out in public.

 

[keni]

Así que, como otros, vine aquí a curiosear. No sé qué decirles al resto de los bichos raros de Internet, y estoy creando este tema descaradamente para ganar puntos LC.
Dicho esto, es una pregunta válida y algo sobre lo que quizá quiera hablar.

Mi primera razón es que realmente no me importa lo que piensen los demás o lo que piensen de mí.
La vida es increíble y sin sentido a la vez, por eso me resulta fácil no importarme ni lo más mínimo.
Estoy seguro de que me importa hasta cierto punto, pero no lo suficiente como para que me moleste todo.

Una segunda razón es que socializar puede ser difícil. No basta con que haya infinitas maneras de ser para las personas, sino que también hay infinitas maneras de complacer, sondear, presionar y apaciguar sus caprichos.
Los pros y contras de tener amigos ciertamente se inclinan fuertemente hacia el lado positivo, pero con frecuencia me encuentro sintiendo que es más fácil permanecer aislado.
Pero si 'My Little Pony' me ha enseñado algo... díganlo todos conmigo... "La amistad es mágica".

La última razón, por ahora, es que prefiero no compartirme con cualquiera. No es que sienta que tengo mucho que compartir de todos modos, pero me gusta pensar que sé las respuestas a todas las preguntas de la vida.
y estoy esperando secretamente el momento adecuado para iluminar a alguien con esa información que lo cambie todo.
Sin embargo, probablemente soy otro idiota que dice tonterías en Internet y que no tiene ni la menor idea de lo que dice ni por qué.

Si has leído hasta aquí, lamento haber desperdiciado el último momento de tu preciosa y sin sentido vida. :caca:

Well, I came to see content but thanks for the points

 

[lolquip]

I DO like to socialize with the people that I like. It's just hell getting to that point for me.Too many years of failed friendships and awkward social interactions taught me to be leery of interacting with other people. I'm awkward, introverted, and absolutely lack an understanding of social queues. If I become friends with someone, I need common ground for us to nerd out about and for them to not beat around the bush.

 

[rocketsheep]

Too much effort. Except in the few cases in which it's absolutely wonderful.

 

[BS3DX]

I worked retail for over 5 years and met some of the dumbest people ever. You deal with morons for 5 years and it will make you lose hope in humanity.

 

[longgoneguy46]

Why don't you like to socialize?​

well, that's cos i suck at it, that's why.

 

[Tigerdiamonds]

The horrors

 

[SirBanana]

I try to do anything possible to not socialize nowadays, I have a friend group who I am happy around and that is enough. I don't have the confidence to talk to other people or to start conversations so I usually sit and lurk everywhere. I tried to play "social" games to see if I could expand my friend group to other people but I would sit in the corner far away from others and never talk and eventually leave before someone notices how long I have been alone.

 

[Vidilo]

I do like to socialize and do it a lot. It's just not what I originally came here for.