Why don't you like to socialize?

[KantamaroSan]

You ever get the feeling that you're a buzzkill? You don't want to be, but you're just so fucking depressed and in pain that you suck the life out of a party?
Yeah... it sucks... not being around people makes sure you don't do that.

For the record, I don't think it's a good solution, I don't recommend it, I just feel like staying away is the only thing I can handle...

 

[kirito99]

it tires you out, at least for me.

 

[Diwarfere]

No offense to anyone out there, but the conversations on here aren't the ones for me. They all feel and look extremely corny

 

[SmashyPants]

As much as I hate socializing, I was at a music festival the other day. Soooo many cute girls. I would have happy traded one of my nuts to have a chance at successfully socialized with any of them. As great as all this fantasy porn is, it pales in comparison to many of those beautiful behinds I witnessed last night.

 

[azathoth]

I have a solid and tight knit support group, I have a lot of good friends, so I don't really feel I need or want more right now.

 

[Alex1980]

Over the years, any person's concept of friendship is redefined. If you are over 40, it is good if you have 2-3 REAL friends, i.e. people whom you trust absolutely, who will help you without question in a difficult moment (even if you did not ask for their help) and in relation to whom you act in the same way. True friendship is a great treasure to be cherished and nurtured. And 10 (or more) people are not friends, they are just buddies, acquaintances, not more.
There cannot be many friends.

 

[costcohotdog]

i'm just bad at it

 

[TimeKiller1981]

The older you get, the less you trust other people. And it's easy to make friends only when you are a child.)

 

[Crpapjda]

You ever get the feeling that you're a buzzkill? You don't want to be, but you're just so fucking depressed and in pain that you suck the life out of a party?
Yeah... it sucks... not being around people makes sure you don't do that.

For the record, I don't think it's a good solution, I don't recommend it, I just feel like staying away is the only thing I can handle...

For years i had that feeling of being what you said, a buzzkill. you talk, and people get silent or just ignore it because it was a downer. I dont know when it changed, but i changed the delivery of my words and people now take it as "comedy", people found me funny now... maybe the sense of humor changed a little

Also, what game is your profile pic from?

 

[ice08999]

im just a introvert

 

[MrGlytch]

I also just want coins. I've never been a forum guy. I only come to check game updates and leave. It takes less than 2 minutes. It's why I hated the original implementation where you had to have something like 15 active hours to view all the content. If I'm interested in a game, I'll look at it/download, if not I just leave, check again tomorrow.

 

[freddix]

i prefer to be alone but i have my small friendgroup with whom i often meet up

 

[ideal_name]

i like to socialize just fine, but i've never felt the need to socialize with people about porn . . . it's more of a private activity for me.

 

[Coin_Gaming]

Most time I don't like to socialize because I always believe people have a hidden agenda the more they know about someone. It's like every person that comes up to me feels like research into who I am and what they can gain from me. I usually try to read people before that and try to be vague with my answers first before actually getting to know them. I won't deny though that there are just some super over friendly people and just want to be nice.

 

[Loliholic]

Crowds and blooslust are 2 sides of the same blade, the bigger the crowd the more i want to use my knife.
But to be fair, some assholes dont need to be in a crowd and manage to do it alone...

 

[gigachad991]

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Meeting new people I stating to think to much and my brain stop braning

 

[incognito2009]

As bizarrely as that sounds, I only dislike socializing online. IRL it's one of my favorite things to do.

 

[ImaTemp]

So, like some others, I came here to lurk. I don't know what to say to all the rest of you internet weirdos, and I'm blatantly making this topic to farm LC points.
That being said, it's a valid question, and something I might want to talk about.

My first reason, I don't really care what other people think, or how they think about me.
Life is both incredible and pointless, so it's easy for me to hardly give two shits.
I'm sure to some extent I do care, but not enough to be bothered by it all.

A second reason, socializing can be tough. It's not enough there are infinite ways for people to be, but also infinite ways to please, probe, pressure and placate to their whims.
The pros and cons of having friends certainly leans heavily towards the pros side, but I frequently find myself feeling like it's easier to remain isolated.
But if 'My Little Pony' has taught me anything,.. say it with me everyone,.. "Friendship is Magic".

Last reason, for now is, I'd rather not share myself with just anyone. Not that I feel like I have much to share anyway, but I like thinking I know the answers to all life's questions,
and am secretly waiting for the right moment to enlighten someone with that one piece of information that changes everything for them.
However, I'm probably just another idiot, talking bullshit on the internet, and actually has no fucking clue what I'm saying, or why.

If you'd read this far, I'm sorry for having waisted the most recent moment of your precious meaningless life.

Anxiety

 

[Ricketyp]

I am old, and tired far too often, and have very little patience left. I have met far too many people over the years to like very many of them. That said, I do have a very small circle of friends that help keep me sane and socialized. This place (potentially) provides relaxation and scratches an itch for me. I don't expect to make friends here, and I only post to get access to more of the content.

 

[sav131]

I am old, and tired far too often, and have very little patience left. I have met far too many people over the years to like very many of them. That said, I do have a very small circle of friends that help keep me sane and socialized. This place (potentially) provides relaxation and scratches an itch for me. I don't expect to make friends here, and I only post to get access to more of the content.

Agreed unless you like spamming memes that make no sense this place sucks for conversation. It's not what people are here for.