discussion Why don't you like to socialize?

[whodunnit]

It's not so much 'i don't like to socialize', as it is 'i don't like to socialize on a porn forum to earn a currency used to buy access to niche porn'. I'd rather talk to people for other reasons.

 

[UnusualUsername]

So, like some others, I came here to lurk. I don't know what to say to all the rest of you internet weirdos, and I'm blatantly making this topic to farm LC points.
That being said, it's a valid question, and something I might want to talk about.

My first reason, I don't really care what other people think, or how they think about me.
Life is both incredible and pointless, so it's easy for me to hardly give two shits.
I'm sure to some extent I do care, but not enough to be bothered by it all.

A second reason, socializing can be tough. It's not enough there are infinite ways for people to be, but also infinite ways to please, probe, pressure and placate to their whims.
The pros and cons of having friends certainly leans heavily towards the pros side, but I frequently find myself feeling like it's easier to remain isolated.
But if 'My Little Pony' has taught me anything,.. say it with me everyone,.. "Friendship is Magic".

Last reason, for now is, I'd rather not share myself with just anyone. Not that I feel like I have much to share anyway, but I like thinking I know the answers to all life's questions,
and am secretly waiting for the right moment to enlighten someone with that one piece of information that changes everything for them.
However, I'm probably just another idiot, talking bullshit on the internet, and actually has no fucking clue what I'm saying, or why.

If you'd read this far, I'm sorry for having waisted the most recent moment of your precious meaningless life.

Holy shit man you're talking the truth. You have a great lifestyle, keep it up and hope that everyone keeps up this opinion. I also don't like people. And I don't like it when I get forced to interact with people but yeah, here we are. Have a good day mate

 

[solarjohn]

im old and tired

 

[Republican Bear]

Simple there comes a day when you realize all socializing is trivial and the majority of people in your life want to take advantage of you.

Think of your self first and stop caring what others think. Now I'm called the asshole just because I wont blindly help everyone.

 

[Just Another Rando]

I've been told before that I leave a poor first impression with people so I think I just kind of internalized that and stay within my personal small clique of friends.

I get that, because of how I was raised, I tend to be incredibly blunt to the point of offensive, it's not done on purpose but I don't sugarcoat what I say and if someone takes offence to it they don't belong in my circle. I've lost more friendships through my blunt and brutal honesty than I have through anything else, and that is my personality, so I prefer to stay with the circle of friends who are willing to tough it out as I know how much they value my friendship. It makes it incredibly tough to make new friendships though as not everyone is willing to sit through all my vocal brutality

 

[Itsme]

People mostly suck. Many years ago I had a lot of so called "friends". I helped them, when they needed me, but if I needed help, no one was there. So I reduced my circle to two good and reliable people. And thats enough (for me).

 

[oopiii]

I dont like people, most people are selfish, fake and evil. call them mindless drones, sheep or NPCs. there are real people out there, people who have their own thoughts and opinions and who are trying to make the best of what life has to give for everyone but they are few and far between.

 

[Lucumo]

I'm very good with people in real life but I'm absolutely terrible at keeping contact. So unless they live nearby, tough luck.

 

[LewdDewd2024]

It's not that fun.

 

[Rozan Sho Ryu Ha]

Socializing =/= discussing porn games on an internet forum.

 

[bigo245]

I'm bad at it and have meet to many people that try to get something from me to many bad experiences

 

[CocoLoco02]

When you have been through a lot, for many years, and the people you trusted or considered your comrades fail you, you begin a life of being alone and socializing less.

And since I started to get away from those people and go out for a few drinks, or go somewhere, alone, everything has worked out well for me. I have my good friends, but they are counted on the fingers of my hand.

But everyone sees things from a different perspective.

 

[Seo In-guk]

Simple word is not spam.
Because I don't trust anyone

 

[resolver_]

No clue, I've been antisocial my whole life, maybe cuz of a trauma, who knows.

 

[Lliiam]

I come here to release tension from my lower part, plus i find it weird to talk to other people about porn games. The only reason im replying is also cause i need points, this is actually one of the first times ive ever interacted with people on these sites.

 

[elfieeven]

The 'Tism but it's cool.. I found a good woman to marry who can put up with my stupid shit and that's the one friend I need.

 

[grim019]

For me it's more about how many people there are. I'm fine in small groups.

 

[lewdlove]

2 is company, 3 is a crowd.. that goes here as well.. socialize in small groups

 

[Siwodnenw]

Because Nihilism and Solipsism plague the world like The Biblical Flood. Let's not forget the exponentially decreasing cognitive function of an exponentially increasing number of people. All the censorship thought police, and BS like that. But let's not forget that most of all because when you call people out on that BS because of all the New Age BS spreading shit like "good vibes only ignore and avoid bad vibes" you get called shit like a negative Nancy or Debby downer or a modern slang equivalent I can't think of or don't know about instead of addressing the issue and then changing course instead of ignoring the mountainous rock wall we're heading towards. That's why I don't socialize.

 

[floydrowx77]

Was never really a fan of talking to people to this day i still don't know how i manage to a friends.