In re-reading, I'm much more critical of games because I put myself in the MC's perspective, so I'm more tolerant of fetishes in other media, since I put myself in the third-person perspective when watching. The only exceptions are games with female characters that see me as an entity and interfere in the female character's decisions, and pure VMs without choice.
Netorare is a type of content I don't play, but I don't mind it in other media.
I like NTR battles as long as the MC has a chance to win, or games with a bad NTR ending are exceptions. I prefer not to play the rest, including NTR (avoidable).
Incest and any sort of age play are perfectly acceptable in adult games, but pushing them into real life/realistic media just makes it creepy af. Also illegal in 95% of the countries, so that is something to consider.
You are mistaken "Also illegal in 95% of the countries, so that is something to consider."
Countries that allow incest for adults but not marriage.
Europe and the Middle East: Spain, Portugal, France, Belgium, Luxembourg, Italy
Israel, Serbia, Lithuania, Slovenia
Americas: Argentina, Peru, Bolivia, Brazil, Venezuela, Nicaragua, Panama, Uruguay, Guatemala, Belize, Bahamas, Barbados, Dominica, Jamaica, Saint Lucia, Antigua and Barbuda
Asia and Oceania: China, Japan, Thailand, Philippines, Turkey, India, Hong Kong, Macau
Africa: Angola, Ivory Coast, Mozambique, Madagascar, Benin, Gabon, Botswana, Lesotho, Guinea-Bissau, Republic of the Congo, Central African Republic, Niger, Mali, Burkina Faso
Countries that allow homosexual incest, including marriage:
Netherlands, Sweden, Switzerland, Germany, Guyana, Ireland, Jamaica, Saint Vincent and the Grenadines
United States and partially prohibited since it is allowed in some states and not in others.
Luxembourg I think is the only one that allows marriage