The problem here is not that you are right or wrong, it is that you demand to use the wrong words to describe your opinion. You are so caught up on the word that you refuse to see that I have basically the same opinions as you about the content. I just see that the reason these fights keep going on is because a certain group cares more about the word than the content itself.Funny you say this same thing to me, I have tagged games in vndb for longer than you may have moderated a site and I can tell you that seeing a li getting banged by some other guy you are "technically" cucking the player because the LI's (love interest) exist in visual novels for the players / mcs to romance them per see watching them with others is the same as watching your wife/gf or whatever fuck.
Anti NTR people get into so many arguments on so many sites about "THIS IS CUCK SHIT" and "THIS IS NTR" and they almost always end with "you are wrong" > deleted > banned. If you would just CHANGE THE WORDS YOU USE to describe this shit and use ACCURATE WORDS that dont have "technically" loopholes, you guys could win some of these arguments. But like I said, from all appearances, you dont actually care about the content itself, you are just obsessed with the words.
I cant think of a better way to explain it. I want that type of content to be avoidable, which if you dislike it, should be the same thing you want. But if that were true, you would spend more time fighting against the content and less time fighting for your wording. You are purposely bringing a nerf bat to a gun fight and losing when a gun is being offered to you, but you REALLY like your nerf bat.
You remind me of politicians and the gun battle. One side wants guns gone, and one side wants everyone to have guns. The "guns gone" people say it is to make people safe and avoid stuff like school shootings. Neither side will budge. Its "guns gone" or "guns for everyone". But if those sides would MEET IN THE MIDDLE, and get off of their "MY WAY OR NO WAY" shit, we could have some actual changes made that both sides could probably live with.
And, as if it matters, I have been "moderating" a site for around 20 years. Not this site, but many many other sites.
But like I stated, this no longer matters. You guys now have the neto* tags and those will get put into place over time.