I prefer Swinging in games just to mix things up. Sometimes I do Play NTR/NTS games, but rarely to fap. To me a good NTR story is a lot like a horror film, roller coaster, or suspense/thriller. I'm not into cuckold shit IRL and I hate an MC who's passive and weak through the entire story. I prefer the stories where the MC slowly learns of the betrayal and eventually gets sweet revenge, but I've never seen that in an AVN. There's probably a few reasons I "got into it", I guess it started as a coping mechanism for dealing with the feeling of betrayal from relationships that went bad IRL, learning to deal with the pain, hatred, and feeling of powerlessness that comes from learning that the life you've built with someone was a lie. I don't care who you are, it's gonna leave a scar or two. I can get a thrill from it in fiction... IRL however, I'm going berserk and turning everything to ash.