I do a lot of things in video games that I would not do in real life. So for me I usually just go along with whatever is in the game, and if I don't like it, then I will find another game to play. But if the trap or femboy is cute, I have no problem giving them the MC's dick... not like it is my dick.. All fantasy after all. Just try and have fun and not be too judgmental about what people like.... we all have our kinks after all and if it does not hurt anyone.... then there should be not problem with it.
I get some people don't like it cuz for some, dick=gay. I'm bi so if a manly looking dude with a cock turns me on, girly looking dudes with a cock is also no problem for me.