discussion Anti-Social & Lurker - Hideout spot

[LizBell]

It took a couple weeks for me to start feeling comfortable. but even now sometimes I feel like I'm a bother.

You'd never be a bother!

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also still every now and then waiting for people to turn on me and say I don't fit here. that I;m some kind of sicko

We are all different from each other here, but I'm pretty sure it won't happen. And if it did, oh, leave them to me

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But if you ever feel like that, or feel like there's no one to talk, my dms are always open! And believe me, I promise that anything you could say there, won't ever make me think of you like that

 

[User_151521]

Yeah, better have head full of fun memes than that:

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you forget fuck her

 

[Nihyl]

Well apparently we're offically accepted once we got the Slum tape. I have a bad memory so I have conducted some research..... I've never got the tape.....

@Slumdum I think it would be good for the council to remove the slum who didn't play the tape for Dean and put me in his place

Probably made your first post when I was asleep, or busy with some thing, and I missed it?
But I'm sure @Nihyl must have remembered it then.

I joined the site this month. And Dean has been talking since February?
I wasn't here
I was going to do the tape now, but you put it first

 

[Dean Wincester]

Anyone have seen the movie sinner?

I do not believe I have. I don't know a movie by this name and when I tried to google it, there wasn't a direct match for the title but a few close to it. Either way I hadn't seen any of the results. Is it worth watching?

When I was little, some of my aunts (from my grandfather's remarriage) scared the hell out of me.
SO I couldn't stay away from my mother/father, but I also couldn't be around crowds.
After many visits to a psychologist, I got better, but to this day, I'm bad at talking face to face and bad with crowds (my anxiety only grows, in these cases)
So it's good to talk and not feel too anxious

That sounds really difficult. I'm glad you've found somewhere where you feel morecomfortable talking to others.

I would say... probably around a week after I joined?
Not that the people here weren't friendly or anything like that, but because I always take a bit of time to feel like I can open up to others. But after that, there was a day were I was like "I should log in and go say hi to the others...", and for some reason, that felt like it had become something completely natural. Apart from that, after I started posting (sometimes daily) images and saw that, even if maybe not everyone likes them (completely understandable), everyone accepts that others (including me) do. That last part really made everything fall into place for me, like it was really a place to feel like myself.

(don't know if I explained myself correctly... disadvantages of not speaking (more like writing or typing maybe?) English apart from here and Discord)

The community here does feel very accepting of everyones kinks and likes, even if they dont always share them. I expect theres still a bit of arguing over a certain 3 letter kink, but nowhere near as bad as I have seen othr places.

Your English is excellent. I'd have thought it was your first language. You and almost everyone else here type better english than me and I'm from England.

Pretty much from the start (maybe on 2nd day?)
I would probably stopped the moment I got mem+ if that was not the case)
The only downside is that there is not enough memes here, I have to go to discord for that, and sometimes share some gems in here ^^

Haha and your memes are appreciated, normally give me a good chuckle when I read them, especially the sort of "dad jokes" like the gem one

It took a couple weeks for me to start feeling comfortable. but even now sometimes I feel like I'm a bother.
also still every now and then waiting for people to turn on me and say I don't fit here. that I;m some kind of sicko

You are certainly no bother. Look how much people missed you and how happy hey were when you popped in today.
No one should ever talk to another member like that, if anyone says that to you or anyone else we'll set Slum and his bat on them.

Alright, time to greet the horrors of a new day. And you all as well!

At least most people took today off so it should be one of those working but not really working days at work.

What if we are the horrors?
Hope you have a good day not really working at work!

Never.

Well on behalf of everyone else I'd like to apologise for that and tell you that you are very much welcome here If theres anything myself or anyone else can do to make you feel more welcome, just let usknow.

I'm glad I could help roll out the acceptance carpet for ya!

Thank you But just remember, that also means its your fault for encouraging me to talk, if i everdo or say anything wrong

 

[Vizer007]

Man, I have very different taste in memes when I am not as happy...At least they still make me smile)

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[KaySwitchPrime]

I loved Stargate. I dont think there was a series of it I didnt like. Loved SG1 and Atlantis the most though.

I hesitated to watch Solo Leveling at first but it really was much better than I thought it would be. Cant wait for a new season!

I love this artstyle! Any specific resource you used to make it?

This happens to everyone See, we are the keepers of the 'true' definition of "lurker" here. Many fall for the false definition and we must educate them in the ways of Lurk.

Between the music and the darko reference, I can tell we're going to get along well.

Saving this gif for future shenanigans

Oh look. It me.

Ooooh I like you already...also loved the Donnie Darko soundtrack, especially Mad World...

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If you like Linkin Park, Halocene has done a number of covers over the years and one of their upcoming projects is to cover their whole latest album. Here's a taste...

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I'm willing to bet you only love them coz you've never actually met one. If you had you would likely be less keen on them. They tend to be greedy bullies.

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Oh a betting man...how do you know I haven't met a dragon? Are you trying to ruin the fantasy for me? Either way, I was impressed with the dragons in GOT.

Good... afternoon?

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Guess who overslept (don't trust what a magic white rabbit with a suit offers you...)

Good afternoon Liz, you look well rested. Good morning for me. Did you follow the white rabbit?

Hi.

so ah.... whats up?

Ahhh welcome back Kaity! BIG HUG!

Bah... It told the same to me some weeks ago and I still feel well.

I would say if you are in to AI art, and with your tags, you will enjoy P4. I've never been in P5 so I don't know about it.

Need help, you and I both brother. Thanks for the info about P4...I'll be there soon.
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Weed theme, from my mind's eye...

by Zari93 on DeviantArt

 

[Vizer007]

Haha and your memes are appreciated, normally give me a good chuckle when I read them, especially the sort of "dad jokes" like the gem one

Glad to hear it ^^

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[Lazarus͏]

I feel you. and I'm glad you're here and can talk with us all!

It took a couple weeks for me to start feeling comfortable. but even now sometimes I feel like I'm a bother.
also still every now and then waiting for people to turn on me and say I don't fit here. that I;m some kind of sicko

If anyone even fucking tried they'd have Hell to pay for it, Kitten.

..and I know I wouldn't be alone in collecting their payment.

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[bear45]

Man, I have very different taste in memes when I am not as happy...At least they still make me smile)

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Solid 5. Woke up deathly ill. Called out of work. Stuck here now, half lurking and trying to figuring out the inner working.

 

[User_151521]

I do not believe I have. I don't know a movie by this name and when I tried to google it, there wasn't a direct match for the title but a few close to it. Either way I hadn't seen any of the results. Is it worth watching?

it have been release with michael b jordan as a star

 

[Dean Wincester]

"Hello Dean Wincester and welcome to the thread.
Take a moment to read through the very first post of it, then take a stroll through the university.
Both places have some good to know info.
The Coin-Hustlers University"

Probably made your first post when I was asleep, or busy with some thing, and I missed it?
But I'm sure @Nihyl must have remembered it then.

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My life goals are now complete, thank you Slum, for making another dream come true.

I joined the site this month. And Dean has been talking since February?
I wasn't here
I was going to do the tape now, but you put it first

I didn't actually start talking in the Lurker Hideout until the start of the month. I actually think you were here the first time I did. I had poked my head in a few times before then but always got scared and ran away.

@Slumdum I think it would be good for the council to remove the slum who didn't play the tape for Dean and put me in his place

Vote SlumNihyl for the slum council election.

it have been release with michael b jordan as a star

Okay, I'll have another look. Do you recommend watching it?

Solid 5. Woke up deathly ill. Called out of work. Stuck here now, half lurking and trying to figuring out the inner working.

Hope you feel better soon bear!

 

[User_151521]

See you later guys!

 

[Vizer007]

See you later guys!

See ya)

And man this one is just sad:

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[Slumdum]

@Slumdum I think it would be good for the council to remove the slum who didn't play the tape for Dean and put me in his place

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I joined the site this month. And Dean has been talking since February?
I wasn't here
I was going to do the tape now, but you put it first

Ah, yeah, so he probably didn't get it then.

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My life goals are now complete, thank you Slum, for making another dream come true.

See you later guys!

Bye Cacao, see you next time!

 

[Poldek]

but not gonna lie y'all I really need some hugs today

Will give you all the hugs you want!

I've been using this nickname for a while, but I came up with it in a day of very low creativity , as I had just finished watching Sword Art Online and ended up making a mix between the nickname my brother used a lot (Kronos) and Kirito from SAO and Kironos was the result (don't ask me why I chose two male characters to fuse) .
I've actually started using a new one lately, but only after I made this account, unfortunately (and I haven't checked yet if I can change it here)

OK. Now I'm kind of interested in the new Nickname. I think you can change it once every... three? six? months.

Good Morning, Afternoon, or Evening everyone. I have survived the holiday and am now back to the grind. I have coffee but not nearly enough for today. Let the backreading begin.

Good morning! Happy backreading!

Sup lurkers?

Sup!! What a funny gif!!

when did you really feel welcomed here?

The first time was when @Underlord presented me with P1, I think.
Then it was @sand, that made the first GIF with my face in it.
Then a couple of you wrote me DMs, with tips of how to make AI pics (@mime and @StephanieD) or just talking or showing me some interesting pics.
Someone, once, even told me that just likes me, and that was so, so nice.

Yeah, it has been a very pleasant ride, to this moment.

It took a couple weeks for me to start feeling comfortable. but even now sometimes I feel like I'm a bother.
also still every now and then waiting for people to turn on me and say I don't fit here. that I;m some kind of sicko

This is not gonna happen, like ever. We all love you here.

Need help, you and I both brother. Thanks for the info about P4...I'll be there soon.

 

[Nihyl]

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My life goals are now complete, thank you Slum, for making another dream come true.

I didn't actually start talking in the Lurker Hideout until the start of the month. I actually think you were here the first time I did. I had poked my head in a few times before then but always got scared and ran away.


Vote SlumNihyl for the slum council election.

Okay, I'll have another look. Do you recommend watching it?

Hope you feel better soon bear!

In my research, you had already mentioned it here well before.
But if it wasn't, I also only started making the tape a few days later, since Slum was sleeping and I joked that all that was missing was the tape.
Then @sand said I should help. So I started.
So if we started talking at the same time, I wasn't doing it yet

See you later guys!

See you

 

[Hexborn_Magus]

you caught me! haha.

not just looking around. sorry for snooping!

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but not gonna lie y'all I really need some hugs today

Spoiler: Welcome back

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when did you really feel welcomed here?

I had lurked for quite a bit before the coin system was implemented, it wasn't until after that when I started interacting with the community more that I felt part of it. A few members that really made this all welcoming don't post as often anymore around here, sadly.

It took a couple weeks for me to start feeling comfortable. but even now sometimes I feel like I'm a bother.
also still every now and then waiting for people to turn on me and say I don't fit here. that I;m some kind of sicko

You're too wholesome to be a bother, and anyone who harasses you for being who you are should bite a curb (I also advise going to their profile and activating the ignore option, I've done that with a few people and it works great).

 

[Scuffed]

Anyone have seen the movie sinner?

I've heard it's really good but haven't had a chance yet. I used to go to the cinema nearly weekly but it has been a habit I've fallen out of since COVID (and having less income) unfortunately

 

[sdc34]

Hey good morning everyone, hope you enjoyed you're easter

 

[Dean Wincester]

In my research, you had already mentioned it here well before.
But if it wasn't, I also only started making the tape a few days later, since Slum was sleeping and I joked that all that was missing was the tape.
Then @sand said I should help. So I started.
So if we started talking at the same time, I wasn't doing it yet

Yeah I think I made the odd stupid comment before like suggesting Redo of Healer to someone who wanted to try get into anime. But then I'd disappear quickly again.
I was only joking anyway I didn't mind not getting the tape or blame you or Slum for not sending it. Dont worry

@Slumdum
I just seen a certain name (starts with ezekiel) on the "members online" dont know if as a mod you might want to help him pick a better alternative? Not sure what the policy is on things like that.

Hey good morning everyone, hope you enjoyed you're easter

Hi sdc. My Easter was fine thanks. Hope yours was too?