Maybe I didn't read properly but I was say that online I meet many who are rl girls, not just trans... Anyhow, forget it. Don't worry lol
Ah! Noo, I was talking regarding only trans. I said that on the internet I see the presence of way more trans women (not necessarily that I really knew, anyone like youtubers, celebrities and such), but in real life I personally know 5+ trans men and no trans women (there was one girl that there are rumors that were trans, but I don't believe in any rumors, specially if they're made at a attempt to shame someone).
Yep. The school system here is strict. In my school they will check girl underpanties to make sure they are white. I mean, fuck sake. This is too far, but that was how it is, just strict, but these days lot of state school are less hard on some rules, but there must always be respect. I remember one girl I used to know got told to leave the school. She was bully and very rude to a couple teachers and her parents was told dont bring her back. Pus, many many Asian families push their kids to study, study, study and if we mess up our parents will give us big punishment so it is just strict a lot
This is kinda fucked up. Hahaha
In my school thet were really chill about uniforms. You could just use whatever and the administration didn't care. Many girls cutted the uniform as to have more cleavage, some cuts on the back as to show some of the back and no one batted an eye.

If the student is getting gooding grades and not causing any problem, why make a big deal out of it?
I read somewhere that the classic bloomers and sukumizu is not being used anymore in japanese schools, now there are more gender neutral and "modest" clothes.
But yeah, the strict asian parents is a stereotype even on japanese immigrants on other countries. Hahaha
Yeah, and for me, with my English skills (not so good) even what you just said confuse me lol, so, no chance for me to learn other EU or South America languages properly, but few words is about my level if I say Hi, and good bye lol
Believe me, this isn't a big deal. Only linguists and college level professors would know all these rules and such. Here, since the country is so big and diverse, many regions speaks differently from one another, so it's really hard to follow what's the "right" use of the language.
But we usually say that the objective of the language is to be understood, so, even if not following some grammar rules, that is being achieved, you are using the language correctly!
I will DM you. its not Kimono0 Goth because there is not such thing, but I will show pic what I like wear in DM. I have maybe 200 Kimono and almost same in Obi haha, so I do love to collect, but they are 99% very old and many people dont like the old ones for some reason. Most likely fashion or something.
My wife have used similar clothes to the first picture from some characters she cosplayed as. She don't have as much as you have of kimonos, but she also has a lot of different cosplays that take a lot of space in our house.

When we go there we'll be sure to buy some kimonos/yukatas!