discussion Is what you are attracted to in real life different from the content you like in adult games?

[DreamingWizard]

Yeah, not even just porn games. It sure is fun to go on a violent rampage against innocent citizens in a lot of games, or to fish, or to work on the fields under the blazing sun all day. But i have no desire to do all that in real life.

 

[Dip!]

Of course it is different, but I'm also rather vanilla irl and in most of the tags i like... other then the typical taboo ones like family stuff and the specific tags that have a home here. Most exteam thing is anthro (thanks Disney) and non humans (thanks...any animation/game studio) like I've recently discovered the idea of living dolls/toys are really good. So thanks poppy playtime and jessie from toy story for providing characters. As long as its female and has "human" emotions I'll give it a shot.

But like obviously I'm the exact opposite irl. Most extream irl thim im interested in doing is providing overstimulation to whoever ill end up with with toys (maybe even have them use a toy in public because i just find it hot to see them struggle on hiding it) and maybe overtim on my self.

But i mean my brain...it just automatically separates art from irl very well so unless its like gore,poo,pee/doesn't stray too far from vanilla. Plus like their some fetishises that i can tolerate like feet (i feel nothing) even if artists can make feet look really cute. Same with light/softer bdsm since overstim can overlap with it.

So, even if i make fun of or tease someones fetish or kink like "ew a furry or ew feet guy" it's just in fun like saying "ha nerd" if someone likes books or is simply reading. Unless its disgusting like poop or vomit or vore or etc. Like I'm never afraid to say something is weird or gross. If someone is offended by that then thats on you. Just like i don't get mad at someone who finds what i like as weird/wrong/disgusting. I have nothing to prove to them and have no reason to be upset because i know how it can look from an outsider.


But also again, I'm rather vanilla (as in normal straight sexual things) in fantasy and even more irl (i already explained that part). Plus if everyone had the same fetish irl they do in fantasy, then most laws would have *unless for sexual gratification* to it. And all i will mention is popular women novels with "high spice levels".

But this question seems to have an obvious awnser anyway.

 

[Arynox]

Part of the appeal for me is how shocking and provacative some of the fantasies and situations can be, I wouldn't be comfortable exploring a lot of these things outside of play

 

[lokoralwosod]

I like mind control games where i can control people without them knowing. i enjoy that concept in mangas or jav`s but i know its not gonna happen in real life

 

[ShyYuni]

Yeah, I love gangbangs where a girl just keeps getting fucked but I don't think I could ever do that irl. I do really like pregnancy so maybe one day I'll enjoy that

 

[edgat]

Yes, to be honest real life is too diferent of any fetish.

 

[Daddy9Inches]

Nope... Im a perv in both cases

 

[Deleted member 233302]

Like 70% of what I like in porn and porn games are things that I wouldn't do in real life. I mean, I like playing GTA but I wouldn't run over and kill people in real life. It's just entertainment

 

[irh15gh]

There's a split. Some things, like creampies and impregnation are things that I'm into in real life, but my other kinks, like lolis and corruption are purely fictional and have to place in my real life.

 

[Gorfula]

Absolutely. the really weird stuff remains in fantasy.

 

[bapcules]

If you play loli games too often, you might start having weird thoughts when you see young girls on the street.
That really confuses me.

I tell myself that it's just my imagination.

 

[irh15gh]

If you play loli games too often, you might start having weird thoughts when you see young girls on the street.
That really confuses me.

I tell myself that it's just my imagination.

A loli in a game , a loli in the streets

 

[BigEffinPerv]

There's a lot of things I like in games that I wouldn't do in real life. Some things are best left as fantasy. I guess it's like in a mainstream movie, you enjoy the characters shooting a bunch of people but still know that wouldn't be okay in reality. Fiction is a wonderful world with no consequences.

 

[Hoodz]

i am able to compartmentalize my fantasy from reality

 

[phaxzilite2]

I had a very taboo childhood so I think a mix of trauma and confusion skewed my view on what "should" be acceptable in real life.

I do prefer the women I interact with to have a smaller frame and proportions and youthful features like being fully shaven. But I would never try to do anything with someone underage or unconsenting like I do in games.

I wish it was easier to find people into ageplay or loli/shota content but I've never met anyone irl (to my knowledge) that is.

 

[aiqedometqi]

I would say that IRL I am as vanilla as can be (maybe not that much, but you get the idea). All tags I use to search for games are things I would not touch with a 10-foot pole in real life. I do have to say that I'm not a fan of incest in games either, but if the developer intended for it to be an incest game to begin with, using "landlady" as a replacement is just so forced and unnatural. I don't bother patching the game if a patch is needed though. There are also countless tags I avoid in games as well, but my leanings on the ones I prefer are quite leaning towards the dark side and definitely things that I stay quite far away in real life...

 

[Muskratato]

Yeah, my tastes are wildly different between media and real life. So much so, that I don't really like games with my real life tastes in the front and center. There's some overlap, but it's very little. It's something I've pondered extensively.

 

[plebpig7843]

Fantasty is fantasty for me. Lots of things that appear hot in my mind repulse me IRL. The brain is a fickle thing.

 

[Paradigminant]

There's definitely an overlap. I suppose it depends on how much of your fantasy can be actualized. I can do bdsm/kink/etc. I can't suddenly be on an alien spaceship with mindcontrol drugs.

 

[Lumi-dev]

Radically. Very vanilla, "girl next door" but older.