discussion Pleasure or Pain - the Big Dick Dilemma

[falafal]

If you had to chose between an average size dick, 6 inches long, 3.5 round that perfectly satisfies your partner, or a huge dick 11 inches long, 6 round, that perfectly satisfies you, but might would be painful for your partner, and you would have to work really hard to make feel good for them, which would you chose.

 

[User_111233]

Easy too old to get a ego boost from a big penis.
It's all about my partner and she should be more willing to satisfy me if see also gets satisfaction?

 

[falafal]

Thats fair. But what if she didn't have a choice?

 

[AlBetGam]

So... the good side of normal, or a parody penis that makes sex more difficult/uncomfortable for everyone involved? I can't see what the upside for Option 2 is supposed to be.

 

[assaultgoblin]

Huge dick because I'm living my life for me, if a huge dick is what satisfies me then that's what I'm picking.

 

[Parroute]

Doubt that bigger dick can give you bigger satisfaction. Unless you're into autofellatio. Or can stroke your ego till orgasm.

 

[kuraiken]

Average dick, 1000%. Zero hesitation.

1. The longer your dick, the more the risk that you injure your partner or yourself. If you fuck really hard with a small penis and things go awry - it pops out. Long one? Google what kind of emergency room situations doctors can tell about. Broken dicks, twisted dicks, etc.
No thank you. I like mine whole.

2. The longer your dick, the less you fit. 11''? You're not going to be going balls-deep into girls. A lot of your dick is going to stay outside, unsatisfied. And if you thrust hard and hit her uterus hard? Yeah, it's not like in pornos. A lot of them are going to eject that sexual encounter and you'll get to have blue balls because she's hurting too much. Also, they don't meet up with you again.

3. There's a whole bunch of positions and sexual practices that don't work if your dick doesn't fit.
Doggystyle from behind where you slam your hips into your partner? Only works if the penis fits, otherwise your hips won't reach. That hip collision, however, can be incredibly pleasureable for both you and your partner. Dick too long? You'll never get to feel that feeling.
Same with lotus seat. Wanna have your partner sit on your lap, all the way down, and just melt against each other? Doesn't work if it doesn't fit. Maybe you can try to build a pillow construct around your penis so there's a buffer, but really? A sex position shouldn't warrent a construction job.

 

[Taximan]

I don't have to worry about such things. The almighty saw fit to bless me with being hung like a stud field mouse.
I have never had to deal with a partner (shoutout to all the woman kindly enough to of slept with me) saying "Ow, take it out! It's too large!".

 

[User_111233]

Average dick, 1000%. Zero hesitation.

1. The longer your dick, the more the risk that you injure your partner or yourself. If you fuck really hard with a small penis and things go awry - it pops out. Long one? Google what kind of emergency room situations doctors can tell about. Broken dicks, twisted dicks, etc.
No thank you. I like mine whole.

2. The longer your dick, the less you fit. 11''? You're not going to be going balls-deep into girls. A lot of your dick is going to stay outside, unsatisfied. And if you thrust hard and hit her uterus hard? Yeah, it's not like in pornos. A lot of them are going to eject that sexual encounter and you'll get to have blue balls because she's hurting too much. Also, they don't meet up with you again.

3. There's a whole bunch of positions and sexual practices that don't work if your dick doesn't fit.
Doggystyle from behind where you slam your hips into your partner? Only works if the penis fits, otherwise your hips won't reach. That hip collision, however, can be incredibly pleasureable for both you and your partner. Dick too long? You'll never get to feel that feeling.
Same with lotus seat. Wanna have your partner sit on your lap, all the way down, and just melt against each other? Doesn't work if it doesn't fit. Maybe you can try to build a pillow construct around your penis so there's a buffer, but really? A sex position shouldn't warrent a construction job.

exactly this.
Even with my avarage penis in certain poses my spouse "complaints" that it hurts a little. You can imagine it's worse if your penis is 4times bigger (2x girth and 2x length)

 

[Itsme]

Average is fine. It's great to get fully inside. Most women can take a 7 inch'er without problems. Everything above might hurt and increase the risk of injuries.

 

[misaki002]

Average, the ego boost isnt worth the problems that it can bring.

 

[blackfyre]

I really fail to see how a bigger dick is going to satisfy you more. Are you fucking yourself with your dick or something?

 

[Teaspoon]

Different strokes for different folks.

I once had a dream where I was sporting at least a 12 incher; it was fun swinging that thing around.

However I appreciate my regular dick for what it is, plus girth is more important than length imo.

 

[User_124703]

I have never had to deal with a partner (shoutout to all the woman kindly enough to of slept with me) saying "Ow, take it out! It's too large!".

I have, several women, and mine is normal average I think.
It is unsatisfying if you cannot go ballsdeep in...

 

[User_93680]

Huge dick, because i always wanted to slap someone with it.

 

[calichris]

Average Dick all the way, makes it pleasurable for all parties involved. I would hate to not be able to go balls deep. Just would be sad all the time.

 

[Siwodnenw]

Is she a secret size queen or masochist? If not then average if yes then of course I'm going with the most satisfactory option.

 

[grim019]

Average dick, 1000%. Zero hesitation.

1. The longer your dick, the more the risk that you injure your partner or yourself. If you fuck really hard with a small penis and things go awry - it pops out. Long one? Google what kind of emergency room situations doctors can tell about. Broken dicks, twisted dicks, etc.
No thank you. I like mine whole.

2. The longer your dick, the less you fit. 11''? You're not going to be going balls-deep into girls. A lot of your dick is going to stay outside, unsatisfied. And if you thrust hard and hit her uterus hard? Yeah, it's not like in pornos. A lot of them are going to eject that sexual encounter and you'll get to have blue balls because she's hurting too much. Also, they don't meet up with you again.

3. There's a whole bunch of positions and sexual practices that don't work if your dick doesn't fit.
Doggystyle from behind where you slam your hips into your partner? Only works if the penis fits, otherwise your hips won't reach. That hip collision, however, can be incredibly pleasureable for both you and your partner. Dick too long? You'll never get to feel that feeling.
Same with lotus seat. Wanna have your partner sit on your lap, all the way down, and just melt against each other? Doesn't work if it doesn't fit. Maybe you can try to build a pillow construct around your penis so there's a buffer, but really? A sex position shouldn't warrent a construction job.

Yeah I have to agree. It seems like the average one would be more enjoyable for you and your partner.

 

[Arachel]

Biologically speaking average depth is 2-5 inches (stretches to about twice depth) and the average length is about 5.5 inches. If it's too large you can actually die from internal bleeding, that's not to say you can't use the extra length in other entrances, but there are legitimate reasons to not want them to be overly large for safety reasons and if they are most women aren't going to take the full length anyway.