discussion NTR paradox

[Icaruslee]

I've been listening to these youtube videos in my free time and i'm confused about why i'm listening. the format is ALWAYS this. guy has wife. guy has either already discovered infidelity or is in denial about her recent emotional distance. wife ruthlessly and publicly humiliates guy with divorce papers while essentially sucking affair partners D in front of guy. turns out wife was planning this for months and fucking hates guys guts (why were they even married). guy has a particular set of skills that allows him to somehow checkmate wife. guy lives happily ever after, wife is super regretful and probably homeless. this is the baseline, some of them get creative with corporate espionage and government intervention etc.

question is, isn't the very act of listening to a guy get cucked and financially plotted against a form of NTR enjoyment? it's usually heavily emphasized how cucked he gets. but reading the comments of the videos, you would think these people hate NTR. kinda weird right? there any AVN games like this? might do kinda well if advertised to this crowd idk.

here's some of my favorite tropes.

tearful wife: i'm ruined! why didn't you accept that i cheated and tried to take everything you have?
guy: you ruined yourself. (insert monologue of her literal crimes)
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guy gets revenge by hooking up with wife's younger, more free spirited sister or business rival.
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wife accuses guy of emotionally neglectful because he works too much to provide for the family.
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guy has massive party and invites everybody in town to expose how unfaithful wife was.
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guy gets to rebut uninterrupted for 20 years while everybody else gets a single sentence.

also heres a couple channels for reference. crazy peppers revenge and dark cherry. you can go down the rabbit hole from there if you are so inclined.

 

[Uthuriel]

You should really stop listening to AI slop on YouTube. Watch some science videos instead.

 

[SilentHunter]

If you encountered relationship problems in real life due to marital infidelity... You see, it destroys faith in people, in normal, trusting relationships between people (I am a traditionalist/cisgender and I am not concerned with the problems of same-sex couples). Finally, what psychological trauma remains with the children.

In general, games are games. Real life is real life. I've seen it all in my half-century. Believe me, there's nothing funny about it. Especially if the whole story ends with the murder of one of the spouses “in the heat of passion.”

 

[hoochimama]

The revenge part is regrettably absent from any of the 3dcg ntr games I've played. If you know of any please let me know.

As for the people supposedly getting angry at those youtube videos. From what I gathered checking that channel on youtube is that AI is just reading or learning off reddit posts where people shared their personal heart-breaking trauma/grief stories. Enjoying ntr porn doesn't mean you want to experience it yourself, or can't feel empathy for those who suffered it and anger at those who perpetrated it.

 

[AlBetGam]

Outrage porn is a thing. Some people see a pile of dog crap and cross the street to avoid it, others bend over and take big whiffs while loudly talking about how gross it is.

As far as I can tell most fans of NTR games are (slightly) more direct. They don't really pretend to hate it; either they outright admit "yeah I like that stuff" or they pretend it's just sex and they don't care who the people are (but they still specifically seek out games where the viewpoint character is getting cucked so...)

 

[Icaruslee]

@SilentHunter i am not in any way saying anyone should do anything violent to harm a spouse or anything. don't know where that came from tbh. are AI generated youtube stories any different than games when it comes to suspension of disbelief?

@hoochimama i accidently sent a "haha" emoji when that was meant for the other guy so it's kind of awkward lol sorry. but i resonate with your point. because i'm obviously one of those people you're saying.

@AlBetGam that analogy is going to live rent free in my head every time i watch these now. well played sir. i don't play NTR games. if there were any that had the revenge aspect, maybe i would...

 

[AlBetGam]

@AlBetGam that analogy is going to live rent free in my head every time i watch these now. well played sir.

My pleasure!