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[uncbuck]

if real opportunity cropped up (a riot where everyone is masked up for example), some succumb (looters in the example case). Other crimes like torture, murder, rape, etc., will have some percentage of people who will do them for various reasons. Humans have demons, and resisting them is supposedly part of being civilized. It still happens and has happened for all of history.

Hence the popularity of The Purge" films. Scary shit -- but just a tiny scratch under the skin for a whole lot of people.

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[Deleted member 162149]

Okay guys, today was fun... yesterday? How much time did I spend here?
Whatever...

Going to sleep now, hopefully can find you all here later!

What I can say is that "Today was a good Day", hugs and Lewd Dreams to you all!
specially for you @lahdeedah1 , it was actually fun!

Had a blast! Hope you sleep well!

 

[HarelM]

NERD!

Just kidding

I can provide my analysis on the trans issue in a spoiler:

Spoiler: terribly political

Spoiler: No, really, it starts out with the political part

Spoiler: The political part

The LGB, T+ stuff has been wielded by some as a hammer to break western society so that it can be remade. It's also been a purity test to see who is either a true believer or who will at least be a useful 'idiot' (who does the revolutionists' bidding thinking that they're just being righteous). One issue is that it's not going to be the LGB, T+ people who will rebuild the society, but those with the power and resources. Note that revolutionaries often (not always) use universities as ignition points, but then after the revolution's success (often, not always) remove the academics (Russia→USSR, Iran after the deposition of the Shah, China in the Cultural revolution). The action of the revolution is not the end point, the rebuilding is, and the powerful and resource-rich hold all those cards. Also, the revolutionaries are ripe for getting swept off of their win if they are weakened by the fight (see the bolshevik revolution, china after WWII). Plus after the revolution, an individual or group can easily co-opt the resulting government for their own enrichment. It's very hard to resist for those in power and to prevent for those governed. LGB, T+ groups are being used either with or without their knowledge and consent to damage their home societies. And I will oppose the changing of 95%+ of society to adapt to 2-3% of folks who are unable, or unwilling, to find a place in it for whatever reason.

That's the political part.

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I see 3 classes of trans folks:
1: Intersex folks with observable biology that does not conform to the vast majority (99.9% is a vast majority) of human biology have real decisions that in the past had been made for them, and often made for their parents, by doctors. If there were real research that were ethical, it might be possible to determine when and if surgical intervention is best. I suspect that those individuals would be best served by preserving any functioning gonads that might exist, but have only my own understanding and life experience to back that up. These people are by far the smallest group, but have the benefit of observable biology to help with their coping with life outside the norm. Since they (and anyone they care to involve) can see the differences, not just feel or believe them, they have a tangible 'touchstone' to anchor to and make adjustments from there.

2: The folks who are truly of the impression that their observable biology is at odds with their persona have a hard road, since their mental state is not shown in their observable biology. Permanent, that is irreversible, changes to their body are just that: irreversible. That should be the last resort and only after adulthood. As with having sex, only an adult can consent to these permanent changes, one of the greatest of which is permanent sterility. Since the pharmaceutical and surgical changes are irreversible, they should be used once all other paths of trying to accept or deal with their observable biology have been exhausted. If in the future the sterility were to become reversible, then the newly non-permanent changes might be very helpful.

3: There are and have been many people who seek attention for a long time. If it's outré but trendy, they are it! Because being trans, or on a spectrum of other sexual identities, is socially unassailable, the attention seekers get cover from anyone calling them out publicly, since saying that a gay, non-binary, or trans person is faking it is social suicide. I suspect that attention seekers existence inflates both the transition reversal ("I didn't really mean it!") and the suicide numbers [attempted and successful both]. That second is inflated because attempting suicide is not soloely a call for help, but can be a way to get attention that some exploit. A noticeable proportion of the LGB, T+ community falls into the attention-seeking category.

The first two groups need help (in whatever forms are successful in their individual cases) to get themselves as comfortable as they are able to be with reality. The last group needs to get their attention seeking fixed in some fashion. I want help for the intersex and truly confused people. For the attention seekers, I am unwilling to enable their behavior, and they damage the other two groups' legitimacy, making those with legitimate troubles easier to dismiss as attention-seeking.

 

[uncbuck]

The appearance of propriety is nearly as important as the reality of acting properly. Opinions form for all sorts of reasons, try to avoid some of the triggers for bad ones to stay in the positive opinion of others.

Thank you, I am Miss Manners and this has been my TED talk.

Sure you are -- Thank you Miss Manners - This explains your popularity -- maybe

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[Captain Panda]

Okay guys, today was fun... yesterday? How much time did I spend here?
Whatever...

Going to sleep now, hopefully can find you all here later!

What I can say is that "Today was a good Day", hugs and Lewd Dreams to you all!
specially for you @lahdeedah1 , it was actually fun!

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[HarelM]

Hey! I haven't done that as far as anyone knows! You have no proof!

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[Hit]

Okay guys, today was fun... yesterday? How much time did I spend here?
Whatever...

Going to sleep now, hopefully can find you all here later!

What I can say is that "Today was a good Day", hugs and Lewd Dreams to you all!
specially for you @lahdeedah1 , it was actually fun!

Lewd dreams to you too buddy, and don't foget the hug.

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[uncbuck]

Well bedtime for me and tonight -- we drift off to sleep cuddling our furry , fuzzy, shedding companions Night all.

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[Captain Panda]

I should keep but I've nearly finished the bottle

 

[tatonka123]

Double posting is frowned upon and can cause mods to slap the doubler's peepee if they feel like it. Other posters might feel like the system is being gamed and not react. Try to wait until another post has been made to seem less like someone who only wants to game the system, even if you only want to game the system. You too @truetrue

The appearance of propriety is nearly as important as the reality of acting properly. Opinions form for all sorts of reasons, try to avoid some of the triggers for bad ones to stay in the positive opinion of others.

Thank you, I am Miss Manners and this has been my TED talk.

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Whatever makes you sleep at night...

And I think it helps with the exercises you need to do... so keep going

Damn, daddy (Slumdum) is coming!
He is reading all the nonsense i wrote, shit!
Where can I hide?!

I'm gonna need you to sit over there in the corner and think about what you've done.

Wait "daddy"? Is this what you meant by introducing us to the parents?! Oh god I'm not ready yet!

I keep telling you people not to trust Gingers - sure they look inviting and next thing you know they go all berserk on you.

 

[Captain Panda]

Also p1 and above go get My new thread trending for the song

 

[Underlord]

Also p1 and above go get My new thread trending for the song

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You a master musician?

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[Deleted member 162149]

Had a good time hangin with the pervs on this very lazy day, but its time for me to head out. Good morning to everyone getting up soon and good night to everyone close to passing out!

 

[Captain Panda]

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You a master musician?

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Lol me a 10 years old with the cello, they forgot to teach me tk read music and tryed to set me in the school orchestra

 

[katmoxxi]

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[Underlord]

Lol me a 10 years old with the cello, they forgot to teach me tk read music and tryed to set me in the school orchestra

Learning music...oh I tried once back in the days since a girl I liked was part of the school band then I realized fuck this shit...it ain't worth it.

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I am going to the computer lab and play poker with the computer lab technician and some classmates....good times.
Betting 1 coin as the minimum/max was fun way to waste time just to buy soft drinks and junk food...

 

[Captain Panda]

Learning music...oh I tried once back in the days since a girl I liked was part of the school band then I realized fuck this shit...it ain't worth it.

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I am going to the computer lab and play poker with the computer lab technician and some classmates....good times.
Betting 1 coin as the minimum/max was fun way to waste time just to buy soft drinks and junk food...

Dated a girl for a year and started to learn Spanish. Found it easier than music . Same with Latin tbh

 

[Underlord]

Dated a girl for a year and started to learn Spanish. Found it easier than music . Same with Latin tbh

You were trying to be a priest? Seriously Latin? You can only talk to clergy with that...most of the time haha

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[Captain Panda]

You were trying to be a priest? Seriously Latin? You can only talk to clergy with that...most of the time haha

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She was hot and Latina hot...... I'm.30.she was 20 I would have learned to fly my wings and fly at the time

 

[MrRedd]

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