discussion Anti-Social & Lurker - Hideout spot

[Lazarus͏]

But can you even reconcile your activity on a porn site forum with being married (for those who are married, of course)?
For me, it's a "hidden" activity, and it actually makes me sad.

I've said it before in this thread, but I'll say it directly to you as well:

My wife and I share basically everything together, and play the AVN's I have found on this site and others, together.

There are no secrets in my house. The degree to which the proverbial door is open varies of course but it's not born from secrecy.

That kind of shame eats you alive from the inside. It isn't healthy, and I'd urge anyone to break it or break away from it.

Otherwise, in my experience - you're riding a train destined to crash and the longer you ride it, the more pain you cause everyone on board. Yourself included.

 

[User_61141]

Attention everyone! I wanted to gift @bakajanai a few coins

you know he is an uploader, right? those guys are rich

 

[KaityCat]

I've said it before in this thread, but I'll say it directly to you as well:

My wife and I share basically everything together, and play the AVN's I have found on this site and others, together.

There are no secrets in my house. The degree to which the proverbial door is open varies of course but it's not born from secrecy.

That kind of shame eats you alive from the inside. It isn't healthy, and I'd urge anyone to break it or break away from it.

Otherwise, in my experience - you're riding a train destined to crash and the longer you ride it, the more pain you cause everyone on board. Yourself included.

well said friend

 

[PsychicJohn]

I should mention... it's probably not much by some folks standards here haha

No worries. I also saw you edited your post that you like kitty titties.

Here you go:

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[Underlord]

still waiting for my new badge, this is meh

dunno, when I go mod-mode I only see targets

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(some mods said that we lost a bunch of logs when P3/2 area were nuked, but I didn't pay attention)

Everyone is a nail when Guz is around....

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I should mention... it's probably not much by some folks standards here haha

Any amount helps people like me....no badge look...
NVM can't turn off grass badge haha

 

[KaityCat]

No worries. I also saw you edited your post that you like kitty titties.

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I mean, I'd play with em haha!

I'm gonna give some others a chance before giving

 

[Slumdum]

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And I'm ready to admit it!
Slum has gotten older today!

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Spoiler: Underlord

Hey stay with us haha
We need someone to keep us in check...

Guz was here, no need for me...

Nice new badge you got there.....
How many people did you beat up for rule breaking to prove yourself?

We mods will never be the same again!

Spoiler: Guzmeister Mod Mode

I pledge myself to the services of Guz, may his reign (of terror) be the best reign on the site....

Spoiler: bakajanai

Hello friends, finally done with work! Busy, busy day today, so lemme get a cuppa and start backreading.

Gratz on the Uploader promoting bakajanai!
And you're getting good at the gif stuff.

Spoiler: Kaity

ok it's time for the......

Spoiler: Kitty question of the day!

what is the best gift someone has given you?

Slum answer of the day.
The best gift? Probably a stuffed bunny I got as a little baby Slum, still have him, and he's sitting watching over me like always.
Two other things, my family is my perfect gift, well my dads side is.
And then the LC family here, I'm not afraid to admit, before talking here, I was heavy on the lurker train. But being forced to come here, and interact with the people, has probably been one of the best "punishment" for myself.
Thanks OG lurkers, without you, there wouldn't have been a Slum today.

I'm getting @Slumdum reactions lol. welcome back Slumminator!!!

Spoiler: xatfx

My wife knows it too, or rather, she knew it.
It makes her unhappy and damages her self-esteem.
That's why it's a "hidden activity" for me.
I'm not sad that she's not interested in it; I'm sad that porn VNs are a serious addiction for me.
Sorry to bother you with my feelings.

Here, you're never a bother when trying to say what's on your mind xatfx, we're a good community, and listen to people.

Spoiler: PsychicJohn

Hey everyone, it's been a while. Lately i have been just lurking every now and then and noticed quite a few changes. Especially the new design.

I also saw the ghost rank notification, which i don't think is handled well. I don't even have p5, but personally i think being able to hide stuff for privacy should not be put behing a paywall, but instead should be available to everyone who has p5. I mean people either get it by donating a pretty steep (but helpful for server costs etc) price, or by engaging with the community A LOT, which i think both deserve the privilege to hide it for the sake of privacy.
Just a minor critique on my part, no ill intentions

Anyway, how has everyone been doing?

Im doing fine so far. Hope you guys do, too ^^

And to round this post off and end on an even more positive note than just a few nice words at the end, here is very hot zootopia animation i really like (By GasprArt):




I hope you like it too. Have a good day y'all

Welcome back PsychicJohn!
Happy to know you're still here, even if you're more back to the lurking ways!

 

[User_61141]

I want it...here have a slum

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did you just.... BEG FOR COINS?

 

[Underlord]

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did you just.... BEG FOR COINS?

No I would say I sold a slum for the chance to get it.
Begging is below me...haha

 

[KaityCat]

Everyone is a nail when Guz is around....

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Any amount helps people like me....no badge look...

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.... if I'm not mistaken..... you have more than a few coins yourself....

 

[PsychicJohn]

Welcome back PsychicJohn!
Happy to know you're still here, even if you're more back to the lurking ways!

 

[Underlord]

.... if I'm not mistaken..... you have more than a few coins yourself....

But that 100,000 AC is just so juicy....
My endless greed.. was awakened...
Need to feed my fat cat haha

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Did I win the coins yet...this is a contest right haha

 

[DubbleU]

I've said it before in this thread, but I'll say it directly to you as well:

My wife and I share basically everything together, and play the AVN's I have found on this site and others, together.

There are no secrets in my house. The degree to which the proverbial door is open varies of course but it's not born from secrecy.

That kind of shame eats you alive from the inside. It isn't healthy, and I'd urge anyone to break it or break away from it.

Otherwise, in my experience - you're riding a train destined to crash and the longer you ride it, the more pain you cause everyone on board. Yourself included.

Agreed, be an open book, wear your heart on your sleeve. Deception leads to distrust, and lies will continue to grow until it crushes you. Nothing to hide, nothing to blindside you when or if you get caught with your pants down. Figuratively or Literally.

 

[Annettemaru]

Whew, back reading done. Good morning everyone! Happy Monday to you all (for those on this side of the world).

Simple fish is good fish

Indeed! Lemon pepper is my go to seasoning because I like the seasoning to be light enough to taste the actual fish. Breaded fish is not my favorite.

ok it's time for the......

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Spoiler: Kitty question of the day!

what is the best gift someone has given you?

I would say the "un-birthday" boxes my step-mother used to send. She would just add things to the box throughout the year that I said I liked in passing. It also contained her homemade jams and cookies. Oh and fruit leather!

My wife knows it too, or rather, she knew it.
It makes her unhappy and damages her self-esteem.
That's why it's a "hidden activity" for me.
I'm not sad that she's not interested in it; I'm sad that porn VNs are a serious addiction for me.
Sorry to bother you with my feelings.

Your feelings are not a bother, especially here with us. And as a woman I will tell you, self-esteem is correlated to self-worth. If our self-esteem is low, things that other people do can (in our mind) cause our self-worth to feel lower. BUT! The real issue is what is going on in our own minds, and we need to work on it so that outside stimulus does not affect us negatively. Sauce: Trust me bro (also years of therapy).

tldr: your feelings are valid, therapy helps self-esteem.

 

[KaityCat]

Whew, back reading done. Good morning everyone! Happy Monday to you all (for those on this side of the world).



Indeed! Lemon pepper is my go to seasoning because I like the seasoning to be light enough to taste the actual fish. Breaded fish is not my favorite.



I would say the "un-birthday" boxes my step-mother used to send. She would just add things to the box throughout the year that I said I liked in passing. It also contained her homemade jams and cookies. Oh and fruit leather!



Your feelings are not a bother, especially here with us. And as a woman I will tell you, self-esteem is correlated to self-worth. If our self-esteem is low, things that other people do can (in our mind) cause our self-worth to feel lower. BUT! The real issue is what is going on in our own minds, and we need to work on it so that outside stimulus does not affect us negatively. Sauce: Trust me bro (also years of therapy).

tldr: your feelings are valid, therapy helps self-esteem.

isn't it wonderful when people can actually show you they care like that?

But that 100,000 AC is just so juicy....
My endless greed.. was awakened...
Need to feed my fat cat haha

Did I win the coins yet...this is a contest right haha

I mean that's pretty cute and all but I think you gotta try again lol

 

[Underlord]

isn't it wonderful when people can actually show you they care like that?

I mean that's pretty cute and all but I think you gotta try again lol

You trying to shake me for more cat memes haha
Here my cat gun....

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[KaityCat]

You trying to shake me for more cat memes haha
Here my cat gun....

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lolol put my face on it and you got a winner there! lololol (even tho it has no tiddy )

 

[TheDude14]

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Spoiler: qsvr

You already got the greeting from bakajanai, but I'm playing the tape anyway.

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"Hello qsvr and welcome to the thread.
Take a moment to read through the very first post of it, then take a stroll through the university.
Both places have some good to know info.
The Coin-Hustlers University"

Spoiler: bakajanai

I did, thank you for taking over for me!

Spoiler: Kaity

Slum answer of the day.
I don't think, I ever thought about being an animal.
Maaaybe a penguin? Just walking there on ice/snow slipped on it...

Penguin translation:
Daaaaamn... FUCK....

Nah, P4 is stil there, that's where the first AI images happened.


DANCE PARTY!

Spoiler: TheDude

TD! Good to see you!

Doing fine, played some MTG today, soo I'm still high on my wins!
Age thing, I'm uhhh 33 sooo you were right, start 30's, but damn , you pictured me that young.
Must be my incredible face! Really gives off that teenage vibe!

Spoiler: kola64

Think is was Jurassic World Dominion, my sister and me went and saw it, and had a good time.
We planned on watching the new Venom movie, but never got around to it.

Spoiler: goons

Yeah, you hit it there. He made like 3-4 similar sounding threads.
We tried guiding him, but either he didn't understand, and didn't let us know, or he ignored us.
Hopefully when he comes back, we can get through to him, and make him understand why.

Spoiler: ashea

"Hello ashea and welcome to the thread.
Take a moment to read through the very first post of it, then take a stroll through the university.
Both places have some good to know info.
The Coin-Hustlers University"

Spoiler: boredguy12

Don't let the post M+ clarity hit you!

Hey Slum

I think it's just the way you act. You act all sweet and innocent and for most people after a certain age you just don't have the patience to be that way. That's why I just pictured you young.
Well it's Monday and today is definitely being a Monday.

 

[Underlord]

lolol put my face on it and you got a winner there! lololol (even tho it has no tiddy )

Now Just give me 1 AC just as a matter of principle haha

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[LizBell]

Attention everyone! I wanted to gift @bakajanai a few coins but they said theyd rather me send em to someone else.

so...... to whomever can make me smile first I'll send em over! haha

Spoiler: hint

I do enjoy Kitty Titties

Hmm... Maybe you'll like this one...?
Just need to make a choice:

Spoiler: Milk

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or

Spoiler: no milk

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