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[User_141169]

It is the way of life in this site.

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Yes, I agree. Thank you and also slumdum to explain you guys also get it at times. Guess just get used to it and when it get bad I leave and return other time, which is why I klog out and log in a lot sometimes. Try to stop the lag, or just go do something else

 

[User_141169]

I get that from time to time -- sometimes I need to leave the site and return but even that does not always fix the issue -- seems to go away on its own in 10 - 15 minutes usually

yes, me too. It was crazy for me last 2 days and when I asked the question other day I was pretty much annoyed at the lag being so bad, so, I wondered if was my internet, but it was LC. At least I do know other people do get it sometimes. I think must be chat that causes. After all, we do chat a lot here lol. Guess I will go when it get too bad and do some art or gaming. Usually when I return it is fine again.

 

[Lazarus͏]

Look man, I get where you're coming from but I really don't understand the whole "approach her" part

Wait.. poach her? It's that easy?

 

[Underlord]

Yes, I agree. Thank you and also slumdum to explain you guys also get it at times. Guess just get used to it and when it get bad I leave and return other time, which is why I klog out and log in a lot sometimes. Try to stop the lag, or just go do something else

Here have the Fix:

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[KaySwitchPrime]

hi what kind of dog is this and where can i buy one please?

I'm not sure, she's kind of a bitch though

 

[User_141169]

Here have the Fix:

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Insert sleaze now...

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Done..

I will let you know if there is catastrophic failior but should be fine now...

 

[Lazarus͏]

I'm not sure, she's kind of a bitch though

Wow.. way to shut him down in the heat of the moment..

 

[quotehorse]

Oud, the real stuff, is pretty rare and expensive. Basil Persian and Jasmine when they are on the plant. I remember some of my neighbors had some Basil Persian, and it smelled great. For the Jasmine, there was this kid my sister was friends with, they had what looked like a Jasmine tree, very beautiful and smelled amazing.

One of my favorite colognes was an oud and bergamot. It smelled godly. But it was also ungodly expensive.

 

[User_141169]

i got you buddy

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Im Goth girl... Or at least people tell me, so, I am curious, you have included first step. I would like to read all 12, and yes, kindness and respect are certainly appreciate lol

Look man, I get where you're coming from but I really don't understand the whole "approach her" part

well, its easy. Just wear yout Mankini leotard (like the ones in 1980s) and wear goofy glasses and wink at her and say "Hi baby. Wana have some fun?" If it does not work aty least you can make everyne laugh at your costume lol

Ok, well, seriously, its easy. Just say "hello" and people will mostly reply, and if they stop then go from there. Easy and neutral approach.

I do love the mankini approach, especially bright yellow or orange because I would piss my self laughing and girls would either run screaming or chat to you because you re different haha, but most Goth girls are actually fine as long they are not emos. Gee those emos are pain in the ass.

I don't know why so many guys get so much stress chat to girls. We won;'t bite your heads off or start up the chainsaw. That comes much later on in the friendship

Just don't try come fresh to lesbians. It won't happen

 

[Lazarus͏]

I don't know why so many guys get so much stress chat to girls.

Prison. The answer is prison.

 

[User_141169]

Prison. The answer is prison.

??? Prison? If they are in legal age no prison?? Is this what you mean?

 

[quotehorse]

Look man, I get where you're coming from but I really don't understand the whole "approach her" part

Hey, if rejection is the worst risk, and possible relationship/sex is the best reward, the simple math is that the approach is likely worth it. Sex is great at several orders of magnitude more than rejection sucks.

 

[Lazarus͏]

??? Prison? If they are in legal age no prison?? Is this what you mean?

No. It's because in my experience (I'm older than most of you I suspect) most women are manipulative psychopaths. Not all women, of course, but most.

When I was younger, I was very nearly hauled away and would have been imprisoned because an ex of mine claimed I was physically and sexually abusing her to a female police officer. During our verbal altercation that night, my ex had attacked me several times with a knife.

During the altercation I managed to grip her wrists, forcing her to drop the knife and stop stabbing me. When the police arrived, I was still gripping her to keep her from attacking me. I was cuffed, still bleeding, and put into the backseat of a squad car.

The only thing that stopped me from being charged with assault, despite being the one that was attacked (I never laid a hand on my ex outside the bedroom before that day) was a neighbor that recorded the altercation to prove that I was the victim, not the aggressor.

Were it not for that, the female police officer that spoke to my psycho ex would have hauled me off, I'd have been charged and no one would have bothered to even think about whether or not I was actually guilty. Everyone would have assumed I was an abuser.

All romantic and sexual interactions are stacked in a woman's favor. It's true that the consequences of a BAD interaction are stacked against a woman (we are stronger and there is much more at risk, physically, if things get violent) but day-to-day, guys have much much more at risk when trying to put themselves "out there".

My former partner could have put me in prison, without even a shred of evidence to support any of her lies, from a relationship that had lasted years.

Just imagine what could be done to someone without those years of evidence to support them. Without people around that could vouch.

If it weren't for our neighbor back then, I'd be rotting in prison instead of married and the father of three beautiful children.

 

[KaySwitchPrime]

She really enjoys singing

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[User_141169]

No. It's because in my experience (I'm older than most of you I suspect) most women are manipulative psychopaths. Not all women, of course, but most.

When I was younger, I was very nearly hauled away and would have been imprisoned because an ex of mine claimed I was physically and sexually abusing her to a female police officer. During this verbal altercation, my ex had attacked me several times with a knife.

During the altercation I managed to grip her wrists, forcing her to drop the knife and stop stabbing me. When the police arrived, I was still gripping her to keep her from attacking me. I was cuffed and put into the backseat of a squad car.

The only thing that stopped me from being charged with assault, despite being the one that was attacked (I never laid a hand on my ex outside the bedroom before that day) was a neighbor that recorded the altercation to prove that I was the victim, not the aggressor.

Were it not for that, the female police officer that spoke to my psycho ex would have hauled me off, I'd have been charged and no one would have bothered to even think about whether or not I was actually guilty. Everyone would have assumed I was an abuser.

All romantic and sexual interactions are stacked in a woman's favor. It's true that the consequences of a BAD interaction are stacked against a woman (we are stronger and there is much more at risk, physically, if things get violent) but day-to-day, guys have much much more at risk when trying to put themselves "out there".

My former partner could have put me in prison, without even a shred of evidence to support any of her lies, from a relationship that had lasted years.

Just imagine what could be done to someone without those years of evidence to support them. Without people around that could vouch.

If it weren't for our neighbor back then, I'd be rotting in prison instead of married and the father of three beautiful children.

awww sorry about that. I agree a lot of women are psychopaths. I met some and heard many horrible story. I am a woman and at first I was like "WTF? women are not like that" but then, I got thinking and yes, a lot can be, and I sadly agree that the law usually protect the woman more than guy. This is a terrible reality, and I am sorry you experienced such a crazy horrible thing, but many are nice and kind but we get treated like shit too. I am lesbian, and I did try the "dating guy thing" but to be honest, I experienced my own horror show, but such is life and for me, in my case, was in a bad area with lot of crime and drug people. Not in Japan at those times, but other country. Lets just say it was certainly a wake up call to learn a completely different way of living.

Your case does make me feel sad and angry at injustice toward you. I hope you have a much better life now. I don't trust many people and these days like the recluse life. It is easier and my anxiety is not so bad like when I go out to the world. Strange thing, I do like chat to people sometime and do enjoy seeing some human life, so home in a remote uninhabited area will not suit haha, but I do understand (as much I can) your terrible experience with this one terrible human, but I encourage you that I met many really lovely women, and some really beautiful humans are my besties who are women. I hope what I reply can assist you but that what you experienced is not justice. Sounds like the cops in your country are asholes. Here I feel it is bit better, but sadly guys do get bad deal in domestic situations a lot

 

[bluegreenred]

Wow.. way to shut him down in the heat of the moment..

Spoiler: Heat of The Moment

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speaking of, who here likes supernatural?

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She really enjoys singing

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[Tosser]

Well - this is something new. Anyone with "donation coins"? Do they not earn interest, or is the rate just shown as "0" until you have something to deposit?

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[Underlord]

No. It's because in my experience (I'm older than most of you I suspect) most women are manipulative psychopaths. Not all women, of course, but most.

When I was younger, I was very nearly hauled away and would have been imprisoned because an ex of mine claimed I was physically and sexually abusing her to a female police officer. During this verbal altercation, my ex had attacked me several times with a knife.

During the altercation I managed to grip her wrists, forcing her to drop the knife and stop stabbing me. When the police arrived, I was still gripping her to keep her from attacking me. I was cuffed and put into the backseat of a squad car.

The only thing that stopped me from being charged with assault, despite being the one that was attacked (I never laid a hand on my ex outside the bedroom before that day) was a neighbor that recorded the altercation to prove that I was the victim, not the aggressor.

Were it not for that, the female police officer that spoke to my psycho ex would have hauled me off, I'd have been charged and no one would have bothered to even think about whether or not I was actually guilty. Everyone would have assumed I was an abuser.

All romantic and sexual interactions are stacked in a woman's favor. It's true that the consequences of a BAD interaction are stacked against a woman (we are stronger and there is much more at risk, physically, if things get violent) but day-to-day, guys have much much more at risk when trying to put themselves "out there".

My former partner could have put me in prison, without even a shred of evidence to support any of her lies, from a relationship that had lasted years.

Just imagine what could be done to someone without those years of evidence to support them. Without people around that could vouch.

If it weren't for our neighbor back then, I'd be rotting in prison instead of married and the father of three beautiful children.

One famous lines here is something along "one bullet is all it takes"...which is kinda true.
Solves a lot of problems....also cheaper than a lawyer.... at least that is what I learned.

 

[Tosser]

Spoiler: Heat of The Moment

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speaking of, who here likes supernatural?

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Show was good for a long time, but eventually jumped the shark for me.

And you posted a song with one of the jankiest guitar solos in all of pop-rock history. I'm thinking the guy was either a little high, or got to a spot where he didn't know how to continue/finish, and so just punted.

Whaaaaattttt? Apparently that video cut off on the last bit of the solo, instead of being the full version - I had it playing as I was typing and it ended just as I typed "punted".

 

[goons]

i got you buddy

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Man, I thought wiki how was a bit more serious, the author got 41 more similar wiki hows ranging from how to handle a player to attracting a Christian girl. This definitely made me lose some confidence in the site.