Personally, I find OSiL's more wholesome approach to be a ray of sunshine in the smol space. Before I found it almost all smol stuff I could find was basically the opposite. Arseholes brutalising innocents for their own kicks. Often in truly horrific ways. I learned terms I never even knew existed and was always left feeling ill afterwards.
OSiL's approach was wonderful. It was all consensual. The girls were actually the ones seeking it out. Was all freedom of choice and giving headpats-level stuff. So much sweeter. And far more palatable. I don't like seeing the cuties getting hurt. There are a slew of games out there that provide that, if that's what one is after. OSiL is a light in the darkness of such games. A place to go when you wanna have a good time.
Shiny made a nice sweet safe place for us all to go hang out. Just because a concept is illegal should not force the dev to have no limits to what they make. And just because the LIs are up for it most of the time doesn't mean the MC should be free to just grab them at use them at any time he pleases. I was so glad that was the fail path when trying for Jasmine. You get too eager and the mother does the sane thing and you miss out.
As we saw with AILW, the universe of Loliwood is open for many other stories and scenarios. And I think Shiny might see fit to provide those at some point. But OSiL was never just a shagging sim. It's a story. In which some awesome sex happens too. It's not just a thinly veiled excuse to bang the cuties. And the payoff each time was so worth it. Though Ada could have come to the party a touch sooner, IMO.