You are propagating that your games do not have NTR. Which sure is ok statement.
But you have swinging.
And in any normal mind swinging is worst then ntr.
In ntr (not forced scenes) at least you are not aware of it. So you get peace of mind to leave on your own terms.
But in swinging? Thats brain fucking , its there and you did it on your own accord. Willingly.
Putting it in a game is same as giving the finger to straight normal people.
The ultimate fuckup.
So NTR or sharing?
Who gives a shit, the fact is that people see both as one, because they are one.
ntr/swinging/cuckolding , triplets , difference is in hair color.
You should too see it as such.
If you do not understand that, than the problem lies within you.