Ketzal, Blackheart, Goosenards and other more deserving devs get all my $100/mo support budget, since they actually need it. In the mainstream even if I was into them they generally don't need my support anyway if they are already getting $1000 or already have 1000+ subs and I can think of 100 better ways to spend the money, seems they are already making enough if people generally don't care about the kinks Patreon bans ( I say let them ban all porn like Paypal or Youtube and see what devs do then; it wouldn't matter much to me, I guess it would be VN's with no A, aka all no-sexual-content tagged). The way I see it let everyone else fund my fap material if I was into vanilla, even in AVN form to me it's silly to buy or fund development of more of it when it's already free and plentiful.
With this one irrc the dev on Fuck95 said the loli was never going to be lewded anyway, that's the minute I lost interest and would have unsubbed anyway if I was somehow subbed before (which I don't do until 0.2- 0.3 at least these days anyway even when it ticks all my check boxes, too many abandoned 0.1's and too much wasted money). I mean why put a loli in it at all if no plans to lewd her? That just baits the fans into that and will naturally piss them off when you then tell them "nope". Most people wouldn't even think to request loli lewds in the first place if there were no lolis in it to begin with.