discussion Having sex wasn't what I expected

[sneakypoof7878]

My first experience with sex was kind of ruined by porn and fellow highschoolers in the sense that both always said that lasting less than something like 10mins while doing the deed was pathetic and embarassing. This was so ingrained into my head that the first time I ever had sex I made sure to jack off a couple times in preperation so that I could last longer. The mix of doign that and the worry about not lasting long enough caused me to nmot even be able to finish the first time. It lasted about 35mins before we had to stop. The only positive was that she was able to finish a couple times and since then that has always been my focus. She NEEDS to finish, whether I finish first or not, without fail.

 

[Jantio1999]

Yeh porn although nice sometimes, really f*cks up the experience in real life. One part is because you are less triggered by reallife, after you have seen it all in porn. And second probably because the one you are with, might not be as adventures as you are.