discussion Have you shared your less...mainstream fetishes/kinks with a SO or friends? If so, how'd it come up and how'd it go?

[floydrowx77]

Nope, just the basic things like favorite pornstar and type of porn.

 

[chester1530]

Without meaning to offend (I totally respect the decisions of others, all the decisions they make), I tell you my motto:

Only a fool reveals his most intimate secrets.

 

[Sarya]

I have a few friends who are as perv as me, so i talk to them about it and it went well.

Talk a bit with my dad about it too. He's really open about sexuality. Plus, he himself had some kinks in his past.

 

[kikomascado]

I've shared some with my wife, others I never outright stated it, but I think she knows because of implications.
She also kinda slipped up my foot fetish with some friends once. So I guess more people know. Hahaha

 

[funnyname1962]

I haven't told anyone cause I feel the risks far outweigh the benefits and I can get along just fine without telling anyone so I just keep it to myself

 

[Sairenji]

Why should i share something which i dont like to someone i like?

 

[Crpapjda]

Im actually vanilla IRL, so, my friends are the ones with fetishes i dont get, but i accept them

 

[zark]

No, and I think guy don't do this for the most part. Seems like females are over all more open about stuff. There a bit more of a push to share to be part of the tribe, that is not as much in man too. guys be like -Yes have been so so buds with that guy for 2 years, his ok. o what is his name? Don't know, did not ask.

 

[freddix]

i dont think i will ever share my kinks with anyone

 

[LewdSardin]

I haven't really had an SO, so no on that front. My 2 best friends sure know I like smolls, it comes up often enough in jokes. Since i like saying/doing things that shock people, many colleagues at work kinda know I'm "not disgusted by younger girls", though they all would still trust me around their little daughters because they know I mean nobody any harm

When I get in a serious relationship I'm definitely planning on being up front about it. If she doesn't accept that then our relationship wasn't going to work anyway, I don't want to hide from an SO, i wish to be able to confide in one, about anything.

 

[juustomestari]

I haven’t specifically said anything, but freeuse for example is present in our lives because I slowly started to ”implement” it. Couldn’t be happier about it.

 

[bingbear]

Benjamin Franklin once famously said, 'Three can keep a secret, if two of them are dead.' Some things I am taking to my grave.

 

[Deleted member 97862]

Yeah I don't think that'll happen anytime soon...

 

[dereguedeixe]

I dont know if that counts, but one time a friend found out my hentai games on steam. I cant even say of how embarassed i was

 

[MattShizzle]

No, and the only non-mainstream ones I'd have would be loli and femdom (not including humiliation, feet or kinda-gay shit like pegging.)

 

[DarEx947]

I have never shared any deep kinks IRL. I have found that most people around me aren't as open minded. Just sharing light ones got weird looks. Things that have now be come the norm wigged them out... like anal.

 

[chester1530]

If you share these types of tastes with someone, you are literally playing Russian roulette as long as that someone exists, you can lose family, friends and end up very badly, I have seen it...
If you have the need to share it with someone, let it be your doctor, lawyer and exercising their duties due to professional secrecy.

 

[badplottwist]

Nope. And they're coming with me to the grave.

 

[Loliholic]

Hmm, wich ones are the mainstream kinks?
Big sis knows everything i'm into and vice versa.
Every girl i ever had sex with knows i'm poly and together with big sis.
Every girl with at least rudimentary eyesight who managed to see our playroom (=threesome or more people since we never share our private bedroom and the guest room has a small bed only 2 people can use at once) knows we are into lolis.
And every girl who joined an orgy saw or joined the occasional fisting/footing/watersports/white out/etc. games live.

 

[User_111574]

I don't have such fetishes. My preferences are extremely vanilla (oral sex, vaginal sex, and, pardon me, foot fetish) I don't have much to hide. I don't even tolerate anal sex. Not for any religious or other lofty reasons, I'm just pretty squeamish. However, I do not discuss intimate matters with anyone except my wife. These are our family affairs, and they are nobody else's business. It also concerns our closest friends and even in conversations after a bottle or two of vodka drunk with those same friends.
But on a porn forum you can say that