Personally. I started with koikatsu, it’s good when you only know it...
after I discovered
wild life which has a VR mode, but it is quite poorly optimized, so sometimes it works sometimes a little less. It’s still not bad,
but no loli, furry instead (minotaur, anthro wolf etc).
you were talking about virt U mate, I advise you rather
virt a mate (VAM)
by far the best vr porn game AND perfect for creation. many people say that this is not a game but more a software of the genre DAZ
but they are wrong
You can do almost anything as long as the models are humanoid. there are a lot of loli models and some shota models and you can edit everything, you can ""easily" create your own model.
I took a little while to launch the game, because the first versions were really complicated. it’s always a bit complicated (if you want to create scenes), but if it’s just to see others' scenes it’s simple.
a lot of paid content... but it never stopped us
in the end, I strongly advise you to try it (VAM), and it takes a little time to understand how it works( tuto YT), but once you know...

last thing attention c is a bulimic game... you will not stop downloading scenes, model, plugin, asset, and it ends up weighing, my vam file is 1.5TB because I cleaned it, before it was 3 ....
about that, if anyone can explain me, in the assets sections I only see posts for DAZ and none for VAM is this because I do not have the member+ or is this just because there are no.
sorry for the English (google trad) I hope you understand me =D