discussion Do you mix your online fetishes/preferences and real life?

[alrubedo]

My fetish is coprophagia (delivery), but usually I try not to mix it with work (chef).

 

[lewdito]

There are a lot of niche fetishes that I like to fantasize about, but I would never want my girlfriend to participate in. Like watersports, humiliation, maybe anal. I think that most NTR enjoyers also wouldn't try it in real life. I want normal traditional relationships. What do you think? Do you have something that is forever locked in your mind only?

Same with me. I don’t think any of the kinks i like in gaming would be enjoyable in rf

 

[TH1987]

No I haven't...until the day they make incest legal (which would never happen), fantasy and real-life are not going to be mixed

 

[KaityCat]

I think a lot of erotic fantasies should remain just that, fantasy. When it comes to intimacy IRL it's all about trust and consent of all parties involved and I dunno about y'all but many of my fantasies just wouldn't fit in the world we live in.

 

[Barryton42]

Nope, fortunately

 

[Magooo]

Of course not. I don't want to break my real life partners.

 

[famkam1111]

No

 

[watsonjohn]

Never. My online fetishes are fucked up.

 

[ohKami]

Sometimes, if it´s possible

 

[longgoneguy46]

i can control myself and separate reality and fiction.

 

[sXtnZa]

No, that's exactly the point—an inaccessible fantasy.

 

[grimsbysteve]

Fantasy allows you to explore without limits. In real life, there's actual hard limits that you will encounter. I think for many of the kink tags here there almost HAS to be a separation.

Finding a partner(s) who are prepared to indulge your fantasies is the most common limit you'll find in real life, whereas in fantasy your partner is either up for it, or comes around just in time for it to not be a problem.

I've mixed a few of my fantasy fetishes (the sort you can find on any adult streaming site) with real life, but the ones I come here for... not so much, I like not being in prison and having friends and family who still talk to me!

 

[Tigerdiamonds]

I wish, but haven't met someone who was that cool yet.

 

[Frodo]

Never. Fantasy is fantasy and remains as it is.

 

[careful_cube]

lmao, I'd get arrested. fantasy is fantasy for good reason. if I wanted to regular sex stuff, I'd do it in real life

 

[Deleted member 162149]

Nooooooooooope. Some things dont belong irl lol

 

[Foxtrot1840]

Never mix, always remember what's an imaginary construct

 

[neothief]

My favorite kink in games is NTR, but in real life IS definitly a big no, that is something i would nota like If happens to me

 

[DocDocson]

Pretty much in line with everybody here. It's good to fantasise also outside games. But real life is different.