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3 Years of Service
At this point you are already catering to the sharing crowd and stuff so you might as well go all out with it then because at this point the people who hate furry stuff are long gone and same with the ones who hate sharing of girls and others who hate some other kinks so might as well make the ones happy who enjoy the sharing and stuff and show the ones with penis have fun with the girls and stuff without there being an option to see it or not, and I only have the thread watched is because I thought perhaps the whole sharing thing would be maybe removed and not happen anymore, but I see that isn't going to happen.To be honest, I'd like to keep the disableables to the bare minimum, so you don't have to scroll through pages and pages of fetishes to get to the real bad stuff.
My current criterion to make something disableable instead of merely avoidable is whether or not I expect the fetish to actively reduce a player's enjoyment of the game if they merely see the option to do it in a choice screen.
So in practicality that'll be bestiality, incest and noncon, (plus netorase to non-harem members if I ever implement a scene like that), as I can see how those 3-4 can leave a bad taste in someone's mouth even if they're optional.
I don't expect anyone to be actively upset at the mere presence of Leonard if you can just tell him to fuck off.