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Are you talking about trans women who still have their dick, or trans women who have had it removed? Because the label alone doesn't seem to change much.The only way this wouldn't be gay is if the femboy was a trans woman but the word femBOY implies the gender as a boy/man.
Are you talking about something similar to drag queens? They will literally tell you it's gay when they fuck men while still in the dress and makeup.
I am very connected to the LGBT+ community both locally and online. This shit is gay, but the beauty of life is that you should be able to do whatever is mutually consensual. Don't be afraid of labels. Instead, collect labels like badges. If you're living your life in a way that wouldn't piss off a 1950s christian man, are you truly living?
If a trans woman and a femboy dressed as a girl look exactly the same, then what makes attraction to one not gay and attraction to the other gay? Is it just because one identifies as a woman? If they have the same appearance and body type, that seems like a pretty arbitrary line to draw.