Some have high anxiety, at least the ones I met in aft were sometimes this way, and most the ones I talked to were either degenerates and loved the attention. More power to them, while others were really amazing people and such pleasure to chat to. even guys. Good and bad in both, but there are a klot of deranged lunatic guys sadly, who feel it is the given right to force many horrific ideas of their fantasies. Not WTF or here. These sites are very hard on that stuff, but on other sites, or used to be. If a guy asks then I feel at least he is decent to day he has specific fetish and respects the woman who says she isn't. That is not problem, but yes, it drive them away. Plus can cause some women psychological harm, especially none of us knows the full reason for other members being on these sites. Im happy to warn someone being over top, but that level is IMO unacceptable. I was a mod on a site and banned a bunch of horible toxic people and no regret. Irather have a decent site than toxic behavior. I refuse even visit such place.
Yes, I feel also that everyone or just about everyone feels this. I never once had toxic person attack me here in all my time. Some couple were unpleasant, but it was nothing but just rude. It happens and I just ignored them. Other members also defend when need. Its certainly a decent community here.
Plus to be a mod here (huge honor) it can be resolved very fast.