That's really a conspiracy way to see things.
It's possible to do good stats: sociologists and statisticians often do excellent work and most of the time they put their methodology in the study, so you can verify if it's a valid one. I have myself study sociology and history, so i know a lot about those things. Plus, that's a lot easier to just interpret the number in the way you like than to fake them, politicians do it all the time.
That's completely dumb to just say "there is arguments from both side". I care about the quality of the arguments, i care about if the claims can be verify, i care about proofs. There is lot of data proving women are still discriminated in most part of their life and that gender minorities are too, which should make them objective allies, i'm pretty sure you're just blinded by privilege.
It's a fact that women have a lot less political and economical power than men all around the word. How many women are president or prime minister of their countries? How many women lead big corporations? There is really few and that's objective and easy to verify reality. You are totally exaggerating the magnitude of the changes. We are precisely in a time of reaction, where conservatives try to reverse some of the gains women make in the past decades. And God is dead? Religious fanaticism is on the contrary really high again.
I don't know if it's a problem of being misinformed or just badly interpreting the facts, you have a way that mix ideology, beliefs and extreme relativism, but the way you see the world is totally disconnected from reality.