discussion Adult games and relationships

[frighino]

For those of you who have a partner, do you still play adult games? Do they know about it, or do you keep it discreet?

 

[Ataraxis]

she knows i play them sometimes but she doesnt know what i am playing and it stays that way

 

[someranndo]

There is a reason that we don't share computers... Can't imagine risking that- even if the rewards would be bountiful.

 

[skkxseo]

hell nah

 

[Itsme]

Yes, and she knows. She's fine with that as long as it doesn't affect our relationship in a negative way.

 

[Skux]

Yeah. They know but rarely play games of any stripe really.
I'm regularly involved in their preferred smut searches when they need an experienced buccaneer/ bounty hunter.

As a service to our future selves I maintain 4 lists of games:
1.) SO would probably play these
2.) SO would probably play these, and I would too
3.) SO would probably not play these
4.) SO should not know these exist in the world

They're very used to 1-2 and I ask about their input all the time there. I would have no problems playing any of them together.
#3 I would have no problem playing with them but they don't swing that way so I can't see why they'd be interested. I could be wrong, but we're not there yet.

Idk. It's just about being open. If you enjoy something and think your partner might too, why not get them involved? The point is to discover each other, together. Right?
#4 I might carry to my deathbed but if I don't have to, I won't. It's a slow process chipping away what once was a wall of comically pure prudishness.

 

[Matm95]

For those of you who have a partner, do you still play adult games? Do they know about it, or do you keep it discreet?

Yup, and yup. But she cannot give less of a fuck about it, so she doesnt know genres, tags or anything.

 

[NoirFry]

Let's hear from those, who play together

 

[highlrecommend]

For those of you who have a partner, do you still play adult games? Do they know about it, or do you keep it discreet?

if you cant trust your partner they shouldn't be your partner.

look up the definition of the word "partner"

as for a boyfriend/girlfriend, that's up to you, my current girlfriend only gets invited to my place when i want to use her h*les LOL
but don't tell anyone, i want to keep that a secret please.