discussion Have you shared your less...mainstream fetishes/kinks with a SO or friends? If so, how'd it come up and how'd it go?

[orangepotato]

really not the type of talk i would be having with the buds

 

[freddurkin]

I've asked questions to explore their boundaries and shared what I figured was safe to share. I've let it be known that my interests exceed what we do but it is not their responsibility to satisfy my every itch. They are more than just a sex partner.

 

[orphan]

Can't really talk about this stuff

 

[Aster Ater]

I'm far too much of a paranoiac to trust that anyone I tell won't go spreading it around. But really that's a broader issue.

 

[Umutumtrak]

First rule of Kink Club: You don't talk about Kink Club.
Second rule of Kink Club: You DON'T talk about Kink Club!

how about 3rd rule

 

[kodex]

If you want to see how fast your friends run away, tell them what arouses you No, seriously, never share intimate details with people you are not intimate with (and sometimes not even with them).

 

[creepypantsman]

Personally always kept things to myself, and always found it really hard to talk about. Have a recent potential LI that was open about a few non-standard kinks so I shared a few as well...and actually so far so good lol. Just interested in hearing how others approach the topic (if they do at all).

Done a little 'Daddy' play here and there, I don't think anyone knows I'd actually fuck my daughter though. If I had one...

 

[BostonStrongB01]

If you want to see how fast your friends run away, tell them what arouses you No, seriously, never share intimate details with people you are not intimate with (and sometimes not even with them).

After a bad experience telling one of my college SOs I go by this

 

[MattShizzle]

Especially the Loli stuff. People might physically harm you for that, even when it's only pixels.

 

[Kansasfarms]

Friends ?? Why would I share what I beat my meat too with them. My wife, sure as she is my best friend but anyone else is general.. yeah boobs are nice

 

[blogg]

With a close friend, we sometimes share our debauchery in the form of fantasy stories. With my SO, we've shared some but there's a difference between "real" kinks and "fantasy" kinks between us.

 

[Monseigneur]

Yes, and it went surprisingly not bad. In most cases

 

[jeisjor]

Yeah, no. Only a few people know what I'm into and they were the ones to admit to it first lol. I'm not the type to reveal anything.

 

[DNS2022]

Talking about with friends? Heck no.
With the wife. Of course. If you can't talk about your kinks, fantasies and preferences with your SO then do you keep all and sundry bottled up?

She opened up about squirting, fisting, watersports, 3somes, gloryhole fantasy and being more then willing to going down on a woman as well as not being adverse to roleplaying at all, up to and including being the teen daughter, sister, next door neighbour.

 

[burnaman]

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Personally always kept things to myself, and always found it really hard to talk about. Have a recent potential LI that was open about a few non-standard kinks so I shared a few as well...and actually so far so good lol. Just interested in hearing how others approach the topic (if they do at all).

I encourage my partner to say what they're into; if I can go a bit "edgier" I will volunteer a kink of mine. Rinse and repeat and hopefully we end up with a fantasy that's fulfilling for both of us.

 

[kae_victis]

I'm way too socially reserved and have too much trust issues to share with friends, but with SO I can share small things by fishing for what they like first. I don't think I'll ever share everything with someone unless an SO tells me they like similar things to me first

 

[dpocky]

Hmm. Depends on the kink I guess. I've shared with a bud, but never had a relationship get serious enough for me to feel comfortable sharing that kind of thing with.

 

[InvaderZim]

I've shared pretty much all of my kinks with wifey, as in the one's I'd actually want to do, which is most of them. There's a small list of "porn only" kinks.

And I've gotten her to enthusiastically participate in most of them with time.

 

[jabax69]

Some things are better kept to yourself, I think

 

[bdogvn25]

I am not in a very healthy mental position regarding sex and couldn't share even though my kinks are pretty vanilla.