BUT if I have to do a repetitive action, the story should be unfolding AS I AM REPEATING IT. In other words, each time you perform said action, it should be part of the story, not just to raise an arbitrary stat, and if i have to repeat it a dozen times just to unlock the next stage, I'ma nope out most of the time. I don't mind working towards a goal, I hate mind-numbing random repeating crap that is obviously just put in to extend "play time." I haven't checked out Summertime Saga in a long time, but last I played it wasn't horrible with grinding, although I do think it could have been a little better, and Man of the House wasn't a horrible experience either, but it was a little... grindier... than I prefer.