discussion Why do we like the kinks we like? Help uncover possible connections by taking an anonymous survey

[doctorpinch]

That's a pretty long survey, I'm assuming its not using cookies. turned on my VPN anyway.
I Just filled it out, I don't know what it really says about me, but I've decided I like big boobs/asses more

Sorry to hear it, man. I'm a small is justice kind of guy, myself.

 

[goons]

Sorry to hear it, man. I'm a small is justice kind of guy, myself.

Generally the same, so it was a bit surprising that when it came down one or the other I wanted my funbags.
I'm thinking that me liking the smalls is a bit more than the physical/sexual.
But then again, I've been thinking for a while now that porn is generally liking taboo topics, with some being less problematic than others.
In example, there is sooo much incest, and till this day I've never really understood why, and why is it so much more acceptable? it can be found everywhere, even in popular media.

 

[Naugus]

I feel like the survey question of fap frequency suggests I fap too much. Not really a surprise though...

 

[doctorpinch]

I feel like the survey question of fap frequency suggests I fap too much. Not really a surprise though...

Did I ask how often you fap? I'm mostly asking why (or to what) but not how often.... I'll have to go back and look....

 

[Naugus]

Did I ask how often you fap? I'm mostly asking why (or to what) but not how often.... I'll have to go back and look....

yeah... "and twice on Sunday" made me chuckle

 

[doctorpinch]

yeah... "and twice on Sunday" made me chuckle

Thanks for replying - I had forgotten that question. Glad you appreciated it! It's the small things in life that make a difference....

 

[Bunsdk]

Some of the fetishes had me in a twist.
The lack of specification had me thinking, I do like it one way, but deffenitly not the other way. So had to vote middle choice.
Sorry cant specify which ones. Cant reopen the survery to watch the questions again sadly, and I have extremely poor short term memory. I only remember the amibivalence I had.

 

[doctorpinch]

Some of the fetishes had me in a twist.
The lack of specification had me thinking, I do like it one way, but deffenitly not the other way. So had to vote middle choice.
Sorry cant specify which ones. Cant reopen the survery to watch the questions again sadly, and I have extremely poor short term memory. I only remember the amibivalence I had.

Thanks for the note. If you want to review the questions in the survey, you can see all the questions, along with the breakdown of answers, in the survey results posted on page 7 (I think). But I will review the questions with these comments and several others posted here in mind.

Thanks for taking it!

Doc

 

[Bunsdk]

Thanks for the note. If you want to review the questions in the survey, you can see all the questions, along with the breakdown of answers, in the survey results posted on page 7 (I think). But I will review the questions with these comments and several others posted here in mind.

Thanks for taking it!

Doc

Blackmail was one. Doing blackmail, absolute no go. Blackmailed, good to go (dependant on context).
Cheating/cuckhold/netorare all included in one. In essence these three are the same. But you lack the counter parts, netorase/netori. Neither of the three interest me. The two added are ok.

 

[MoesephMoeseph's icon]

I've discovered I'm about as average as possible in this community

 

[doctorpinch]

Blackmail was one. Doing blackmail, absolute no go. Blackmailed, good to go (dependant on context).
Cheating/cuckhold/netorare all included in one. In essence these three are the same. But you lack the counter parts, netorase/netori. Neither of the three interest me. The two added are ok.

I will try to distinguish between being blackmailed and blackmailing. (It's funny. I'm exactly the opposite. For me, the first is a no go area but the second I'm all over!)

I have to confess that I'm at a loss with all the Japanese cheating variations. Is there a good place to find a list of what each one means in the porn VN or game context?

 

[Bunsdk]

I will try to distinguish between being blackmailed and blackmailing. (It's funny. I'm exactly the opposite. For me, the first is a no go area but the second I'm all over!)

I have to confess that I'm at a loss with all the Japanese cheating variations. Is there a good place to find a list of what each one means in the porn VN or game context?

Netorare, is your partner cheating (usually demeaning/humiliating you while at it. but not a requirement)
Netorase, sharing and cuckholdry
Netori, you cheating on your partner

 

[Bunsdk]

I will try to distinguish between being blackmailed and blackmailing. (It's funny. I'm exactly the opposite. For me, the first is a no go area but the second I'm all over!)

I have to confess that I'm at a loss with all the Japanese cheating variations. Is there a good place to find a list of what each one means in the porn VN or game context?

Ah yes... and the weird bastardization of netorare .... When ever you partner fucks anybody else.
When ever anything of the like, consentual, threesomes, cheating, dogs, plants... then there will be a crowd whining about netorare. Mostly they just dont understand what the word means, but hey... there are a LOT of them.

 

[Gornpa]

Oh good heavens! Most of those things were major turn ons!

 

[doctorpinch]

Is there a link to the results of it?

On page 7 of this thread there is a report of the first 150 who have taken the survey and what the overall results were and the average. Each question with a report in order. At the bottom of the page is a spreadsheet with the kinks reported out sorted by average rating.

 

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[doctorpinch]

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You've got me. This is the thread for hypotheses, discussion, and comments. I'll start.

My basic hypothesis is that our Alpha or Omega social standing derives, like our gorilla and chimpanzee cousins, from our willingness to fight for the top rung of the hierarchy ladder. Prior to the development of pair bonding, in a world of Alpha control over breeding females, you have to ask how the omega personality survived. One possibility, of course, is that it is entirely acculturated and has no element of genetic contribution. Otherwise, the genetic contribution would have been bred out of the population, since, in theory, the Alpha male prevents any other male in the group from breeding with group females.

A second possibility is that Omega males could breed (and thereby preserve their genetic heritage) outside of the group. However, that seems unlikely since we are such highly social animals. Although other mammals do have periods (particularly post-pubescent) outside of a natal group before joining a long-term adult group, that model doesn't seem to exist among the apes.

A third possibility, and the one I favor and was hoping to find support for in the data from this survey, is that Omega males preserve their genetic heritage through cheating. That is, Alpha males believe they are in control over group breeding, but Omega males find their way to breed with available females despite Alpha control. This model finds support in chimpanzee behaviour. My question is what would that mean in the context of sexual preferences, assuming that some element of this genetic heritage persists in a world of pair bonding.

A fourth possibility is that the genes for Alpha or Omega personality ride on the X chromosome and are preserved and passed on through the female. (I actually think this is also the case, in addition to the cheating hypothesis.) I don't believe this alone could preserve Omega personality without the Omega males re-contributing their genes back to their daughters, but I don't have the math or modelling skills to model this out.

Next time, my theories about how this impacts sexual kinks.

 

[SHadedOne]

Very interesting survey here~

 

[sangaya]

Interesting survey. Finished and submitted.

 

[livelyfish]

I guess I'll give it a shot. You know, for science!