Regarding virginity, it's not an essential fetish for all characters. It only makes sense for some, where sexual inexperience is an essential part of the character. As for blood, a single drop has a very good visual impact for a game. I understand that some people don't handle blood well — there are those who faint just from seeing it — so I think it should be optional.
However, for older characters with a more laid-back attitude, the rupture of the hymen is irrelevant. I can't believe in a 22-year-old woman who has never masturbated

, but I can believe she hasn't had sexual intercourse with a partner and is a virgin.
The loss of virginity isn't tied to the hymen, but rather to the first sexual experience with a partner. Regarding women lying about their virginity, I've heard it more than once from their own mouths — after a few beers, at a barbecue with friends, away from the kids. To give a concrete example: my ex-wife herself confessed that she lied to her second and third boyfriends. And in her words: "What's the problem? They were happier and more affectionate." And I agree with her — sometimes fantasy is worth more than reality.