discussion Porn consumption

[Mcloving]

So,i have noticed that when im doing well with women irl i tend to consume a lot less porn.While the opposite happens when im on a "drought". You guys have the same feeling?

 

[exerp]

Are they just correlated or is there a causal connection?

I had a buddy who figured that using porn lowered his motivation to go after a good relationship.

 

[majorglory]

I find it’s not porn, it’s cumming. When your body has its needs met, it’s hard to find motivation to find companionship.

In short, try edging!

 

[User_43891]

I find it’s not porn, it’s cumming. When your body has its needs met, it’s hard to find motivation to find companionship.

In short, try edging!

I don't know...if you're jerking it and the effect of you nutting is that you don't have the desire to look for a relationship, it means you were probably looking for a relationship mainly for sex.

And if you go out there with that as your main motivation, women will know. You will come across as desperate.

Spank it. Relieve yourself of the sexual motivation. Then if you find that you still want *actual companionship*, go out to meet new people.

 

[majorglory]

I don't know...if you're jerking it and the effect of you nutting is that you don't have the desire to look for a relationship, it means you were probably looking for a relationship mainly for sex.

And if you go out there with that as your main motivation, women will know. You will come across as desperate.

Spank it. Relieve yourself of the sexual motivation. Then if you find that you still want *actual companionship*, go out to meet new people.

We’re all just meat puppets being driven by electricity. Things like hormones and chemical
Imbalances can affect our minds as much as our bodies, they aren’t two separate things really.

 

[Dario]

I'm married with kids, but AVNs are a nice break from the drama that comes with relationships. It's a nice escape from real life. So my consumption would not change much regardless of relationship status.