discussion M/S and F/D lovers (on the adult side), how do you feel about it irl?

[aljza]

for those who enjoy the thinking about being the M, F or even Gf or Gm in those games, how do you feel about it? do you fear yourself? do you enjoy thinking about it becoming a reality?
extra points if you enjoy those while being single and not a parent

edit: since someone mentioned B/S, the point is about raising and protecting, plus of the feelings if you chose or will choose to have children while having such fetish, the extra points are for the conflicting feelings and the uncertainity of it if it hasn't happened yet

 

[AlBetGam]

It's a fun fantasy. In real life, never ever. And no, I don't care how old the kid is.

 

[RainbowEraser]

I guess I don't enjoy it because I have no idea what is being talked about here although I am intrigued.

 

[Marlog]

to me its only really hot in a fantasy setting with fictional people. the last thing i want to think about is my actual family when im trying to have a fun time with a VN xD... saying that u get bonus points if ur not a parent is wierd to me. u might as well say bonus points for people who play incest games but dont have a family irl. I think the vast majority of us arent actually thinking about anything related to real life. even when i play a first person game its not me and MY family - its some fictional version of me in a fictional world with some other fictional family.

 

[PapaQ]

In games, yes please.

In real life? Hard pass.

 

[PapaQ]

I guess I don't enjoy it because I have no idea what is being talked about here although I am intrigued.

Mother/Son
Father/Daughter

 

[crackyolc]

Fantasy, sure.

Real, no way.

What about cousins or B/S?

 

[i_patchy]

Bad. Relationships like that are inherently abusive in nature, because one of the parties involved holds substantially less power, so a possibility of foul play is always an issue. Which is frankly even reflected in 99% of the games, as parent ( at least in case of male ) mostly acts following his own desires. IRL in case with M/S, situation would be the same as in case with F/D, but because most games pander to males or reflect authors personal fantasy, mother character in most cases would be corrupted/seduced/subjugated/blackmailed/raped by son. Rape aside, in case of sexual abuse in family most of the time perpetrator is a parent, even if it is female.

Frankly, even i case with sibcest, most of the time a younger sibling will be sexually exploited by older one ( even if perpetrator is female ), so power imbalance in incestuous relations is always an issue.

There are exceptions, obviously, but they require some extra ordinary circumstances. Like for example: a biological parent was not present during a child upbringing, but met later in life and had a "spark", than that kind of romance, in my opinion, wouldnt be much different than any other romance were participants have a substantial age gap.

Im writing this as an incest enjoyer myself. Fetish is one thing, real life is the other.

 

[truetrue]

To loosely quote Karlak: I get the fantasy, but the real deal, no thanks.

 

[RainbowEraser]

Mother/Son
Father/Daughter

oh got ya

 

[aljza]

to me its only really hot in a fantasy setting with fictional people. the last thing i want to think about is my actual family when im trying to have a fun time with a VN xD... saying that u get bonus points if ur not a parent is wierd to me. u might as well say bonus points for people who play incest games but dont have a family irl. I think the vast majority of us arent actually thinking about anything related to real life. even when i play a first person game its not me and MY family - its some fictional version of me in a fictional world with some other fictional family.

the bonus points was because unlikely having relatives to compare it with, you wouldn't, you would be in the unknown of your true feelings until it happens, the uncertainity of it is what awards them

 

[aljza]

Fantasy, sure.

Real, no way.

What about cousins or B/S?

no, the point is for people you're supposed to raise or protect as a parent figure, B/S is a lot difference, plus you can't really choose to have a sibling, but you can choose to have or not have children, which makes it more questionable when you have such fetishes

 

[i_patchy]

no, the point is for people you're supposed to raise or protect as a parent figure, B/S is a lot difference, plus you can't really choose to have a sibling, but you can choose to have or not have children, which makes it more questionable when you have such fetishes

- well... to be fare... you can choose to have a sibling if you are banging your parent

 

[IFF01]

In games sure, real life no way

 

[Beegee]

As everyone said, IRL: Gross.
In fiction? Daddy/Daughter bonding is the purest form of love.

 

[cunnyman]

I keep my fetishes in fiction, no way would I want to see IRL incest

 

[ThaBoooBThaBoooB's icon]

It's a fantasy. It's a weird fetish that is hard to grasp for most ppl. And understandably so.
That's why the F/D stories are so fantastic. I get to play-out that fantasy in a safe space.
I don't mind the role-play, either. As long as everybody is an adult and it's consensual. Same thing, it's a fantasy.

But if you're actually even thinking about grooming and or having sex with your real daughter. You should seek help.
(speaking generally not aiming at op )

Now, I don't fear my self. Because I'm an empathic person, and would not wish harm on anyone. (with a few exceptions) I also have self-control.
But I would rather jump off a bridge then having sex with a minor or spawn a daughter to groom.

Also, bonus points. Single and childless as fuuuck.

 

[adavi]

Ultra hard pass, the thought of the thought is sickening enough. But now for distant cousins, yeah had a crush once, still remembered the day we met, mind you never saw her a day in my life then suddenly bam, she's and her family were spending the holidays at our place. Was my first real crush, had and still has the qualities I'm looking for both mentally and physically but alas

 

[GourmetChef]

Parent child relationships are immoral imo. Shouldn't happen irl.

 

[ariel1234]

for those who enjoy the thinking about being the M, F or even Gf or Gm in those games, how do you feel about it? do you fear yourself? do you enjoy thinking about it becoming a reality?
extra points if you enjoy those while being single and not a parent

edit: since someone mentioned B/S, the point is about raising and protecting, plus of the feelings if you chose or will choose to have children while having such fetish, the extra points are for the conflicting feelings and the uncertainity of it if it hasn't happened yet

Hell no, for me is more of a game thing, just like a game where you kill people, is fun in the game but I never think of doing anything like this irl nor do i get temptated