One big flaw with that argument, and it's huge, is: A guy in a game or porn is just a penis with an extra large meat handle attached. A necessary prop that is not put there as an object of my desire/attraction.
A guy with boobs *is* put there and *is* supposed to be an object of my desire, and I'm told in no uncertain way that this is not gay at all, and if I think so I have issues.
Believe it or not, this kinda rubs me the wrong way.
The word Gaslighting is thrown around wantonly around the net today, mostly wrong by people who have no idea what it actually means.
But the futa push is pretty much textbook.
"Don't believe your lying eyes"