discussion How did you discover your kinks/fetishes?

[richpalmer]

Seeing as we're all perverts and deviants here (I mean, I don't want to assume but look in the top left corner of your browser right now), I was curious how you all discovered what you were into and when? (Obviously, keep it within the rules for this forum if you're into some Members + stuff).

For me, it was a mix of discovering some super kinky Star Trek fanfiction and chatting with a girl in my class on ICQ when we were 13/14. She shared that she enjoyed peeing in the shower and, well, that literally started me down a slippery slope.

 

[amypames]

a mix of watching porn, people i've dated, and just casual chat with people

 

[Zbarev]

From some games, manga and of course, watching porn

 

[whisperpuppy]

Roleplay chat forums and message boards.

 

[Worldwalker]

Roleplay chats in the mid 90s as a teenager, and stumbling on an online library of smut fiction with a lot of fetishes. Also browsing newsgroups back in the day.

 

[archaelon01]

Going deeper and deeper into the anime rabbit hole xD For me most fetishes are anime related xD First I was like "hmm that anime girl is cute", which at one point evolved into "hmmm I like to see their pantsu", which then evolved into "hmmm let's try some hentai games" and yeeeeaaah...that's how I discovered my love for pantsu and exhibitionism xD

 

[Apocalypsee]

Lots ...and lots....and lots of porn. Decades of sinking deeper into the abyss and trying out the weirdest shit out there in order to keep my Willy happy.

 

[SilentHunter]

In my case, everything was boring for the majority of the audience gathered here. When I was 16, I lost my virginity to a 19-year-old girl. I liked it so much that I didn't do any other experiments. As an example, the thought of anal sex makes me want to vomit.
I suspect that I'm not the only one here. I don't know if vaginal sex can be classified as a fetish.

 

[bigshot3332]

Roleplay as a teen was a gateway for me. I also got "experimental" with neighborhood girls and a cousin of mine. Guess I never grew out of what I liked.

 

[Critraa]

As a young boy discovered porn videos. Then watched some and found out about "milf, incest porn etc."
The other kinks are from the past 10 years of watching porn.
The other kinks i found out about sites like this and lewd games.

 

[mopthegloop]

Devolving into weirder and weirder doujinshi tags due to running out of materials until I'm a lost cause

 

[TabooDad50]

a mix of watching porn, people i've dated, and just casual chat with people

Agree with this alot.
But with age some kinks develop.
Use to be interested in older women when I was a teen, now I like em young and fresh.
Never had an incest fetish till I got older but with no siblings and no children the fantasy of that now appeals to me as a what if that happened in some wierd alternate timeline.
Thats whats great about fantasy its just pretend with no collateral real life consequences. Thats why I will never get the whole you cant show that content or images(Loli/Hebe/Incest) of art/makebelieve yet with all the game and movies showing Murder, genocide and even like GTA games that content seems ok yet i havent ever killed anyone or carjacked someone.
Kinks develop as you experience in person and grow as we all age and test what gets us off.
I was always Dirty but now im truly a Dirty old man
Now please bring me some loli/hebe incest breeding animations and allow me some fun.

 

[KrealMarks]

I think it was slowly developing.

 

[poisonthewell]

By seeing some quite unsavory things whilst exploring the internet at a young age.

 

[richpalmer]

Seems like the internet is a common vector. I sometimes wonder how kinky I would be if the internet just... wasn't around. Maybe? If I met the right person?

 

[SammyJ27]

Ive had at least thee of my fetishes come to me in a dream. As in I knew about them but they didnt appeal to me. Had one dream and boom now im into it. Its like i mind controlled myself.

 

[richpalmer]

Ive had at least thee of my fetishes come to me in a dream. As in I knew about them but they didnt appeal to me. Had one dream and boom now im into it. Its like i mind controlled myself.

...it would be kind of ironic if one of your fetishes was hypnosis.

 

[SammyJ27]

...it would be kind of ironic if one of your fetishes was hypnosis.

That it would be. Not really my thing though. The ones that came to me in a dream are watersports, domination (switch), furry and the one which is why we are all on this site specifically hebe.

 

[richpalmer]

That it would be. Not really my thing though. The ones that came to me in a dream are watersports, domination (switch), furry and the one which is why we are all on this site specifically hebe.

I can't help but feel that those dreams would be extremely popular in Games+.

 

[Hulitan]

Reading that Cagliostro Doujin by Asanagi in that one fateful night. I have never been the same and I unironically use the R-18G on pixiv.