discussion can we agree on definitions and identifications (LGBT+ terminology)

[Thelonely]

there're some tags that used to confuse me because people use it differently. first one is NTR (already talked about it in that thread)
next is LG the definition says attracted so in my mind if i have sex with the same sex out of lust and not attraction i shouldn't be called gay? what if i saw a femboy and thought he's attractive but as soon as i know his true gender i don't and probably that why some called them Traps the B is more confusing, isn't it the same as pansexual?

then there's the T. Transexual/transveste what's the difference for me they all are Crossdressers even the drags and femboys

i don't mean to sound offensive but it's just what i think about

 

[ghostmaster]

You're overcomplicating things.
Woman on woman sex = lesbian, regardless of everything else.
Man on man sex = gay, regardless of everything else.
Any sex + combination of both men and women = Bi, regardless of everything else.
Any sex trying to be other sex = trans, regardless of everything else.
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Yes, it means that tags are overlapping. Male MC fucks a woman and a femboy while two girls scissor exclusively each other next to them = full lgbt in tags

> if i have sex with the same sex out of lust and not attraction i shouldn't be called gay?
Your reasoning doesn't really matter - it is gay sex, it is called gay.

 

[Xonia]

for the controversial tags, ive made a thread about them already.
https://lewdcorner.com/threads/game-and-thread-tags.10800/

as for the definitions:

Gay is generally used for love/sex between any same sex individuals.
While it is confusing on why male-male is Gay and female-female is Lesbian, but also Gay, is the one that always confuses people.
Lesbian: Female - Female love. Any act of sexual intimacy between two biological Females with vaginas.
Gay: Male - Male love. Any act of sexual intimacy between two bio logical Males with Penises.

Transgender: Person who feels or identifies as a different gender than birth
Transexual: Person who uses surgery or hormones to physically changes their body to different sex, or appear.
Transvestite: Derogatory term used years ago to refer to a cross dresser.

Cross dresser: person who wheres other genders clothes
Drag: Mainly Males who perform dance or lifestyles wearing female clothes, some are straight men, majority are gay.
Femboys: males who appear very feminine. smooth skin, skinny bodies with curves.

 

[Beegee]

At the risk of embarrassing myself, I will offer my male interpretation:

Femboys are effeminate boys. If they are gay, then they are probably super gay, and that's okay, but if you're attracted to femininity, then it's only slightly gay to be attracted to them.

Trans women are not femboys. They see themselves as women. That's not gay, and if you are attracted to femininity, then it's not gay to find them attractive.

"Trap" isn't a real thing; it's based on men's fear of penis and fear of catching the gay, but again, being attracted to femininity is the least gay kind of attraction.

Drag is performance art, wherein men dress as bizarre, exaggerated caricatures of women. This has nothing to do with the individual queen's gender. Some are super gay, some are trans, and some might be totally hetero. What they all share in common is that they like wearing bad makeup and being dramatic. If you are attracted to them, you are hella gay. And that's okay.

 

[Thelonely]

thanks for your replies. it really enlightened me. As i said it came out of reading the meanings rather living in a community that embrace it

 

[crab22]

In my opinion Male on male should be marked BL instead of gay, but alas