discussion Anyone else tired from Dating/Relationship IRL?

[darknesu]

It's exhausting when you both don't connect with each other and is just there for the benefits
Try things out together with your partner and it'd be less exhausting

 

[adam1111113]

With the right person, it's less tiring and more adventurous. But yeah, sometimes, I just don't want an emotional connection, I just need something physical.

 

[fabiusg]

Dating sites and apps are a massive waste of time

Relationships are a work but that has to be expected from both sides, if only one side invests then it will inevitably drain and fall

A lot of guys make a mistake of investing too much into chasing a girl and catering for her, and not getting anything back so you cannot build a balanced relationship that would last.

 

[Jack Of Blades]

I'm just burnt out from dating. Most of my relationships have been short-term, but it's been stressful and tiring to make it work. I did had a lot of happy moments, mostly in my mid-20s. I'm in my 30s now.

My last relationship was last year and she was very manipulative. Stalked my reddit page and she gets so irritated when she doesn't get her way. I'm glad that we broke up.

I just want to stay single and play my porn games to jack off.

How about you guys? Do you also feel exhausted from IRL Dating? And to the married people, how is your relationship doing?

sounds like she is a brat needing to be tamed lol, my methods are quite mind manipulation games (bdsm shit) yah know.

 

[Redyscom]

In my life, I've had five relationships that seemed like they were going somewhere, and they ended like this:
- She cheated on me.
- She told me, “You're not good enough for me.”
- She dumped me because she thought I was cheating on her.
- She dumped me for someone else (who later cheated on her).
- She cheated on me.


For the past six years, I’ve stopped pursuing any kind of romantic relationship. I haven’t closed myself off to it, but I’m not actively looking for anything. If it happens, great; if not, then so be it.