I'd estimate that most time i have spent is with A Struggle With Sin, due to how massive rpg it has become and me always starting from the start when i decide to upgrade for new patch.
There's multiple reasons for why it happens.
1. Dev tried to create game for living and it didn't breakthrough so they abandon it.
2. Dev no longer having time to create the game that they made as a hobby.
3. Dev having health issues that force them to abandon the game.
4. Dev losing their...
Don't try to please everyone with your game, choose a core audience you want and go for them. People really hate if you try to mix things that don't mix well like NTR and vanilla.
Don't think there's too many games where the focus is on cheerleaders, though pretty much every game with school setting has at least one cheerleader character.
Services like Patreon are very strict on content. If you try to have incest game on patreon and they find out about it, they will boot you off the platform.
Sorcerer from Talothral, it was my first game from him and boy did his writing surprise me. A Struggle With Sin is another that surprised me how great the game actually is.
This AI hype in general is bs. From them pretty much stealing content from copyright holders to being real resource hogs for water and electricity. There are LLM tools that can be great, but those are more limited to doing specific research tasks and not used by general public.
Miss for me. Pretty much the only tits that can turn me off are the overly large ones. I can still work with large tits, but after certain point they just become turn off.