discussion Is it gay to like femboys?

[Kaeru]

If you look at a feminine girl and think "Damn, if only she had a penis.", then yeah, I would say you're pretty gay.

 

[GarbageMan89]

The way I look at it: "Is my dick bigger?"

If mines bigger, then totally not gay.

 

[User_88762]

IRL ..yes.

In fantasy like Anime/Hentai, and games... no.

Real porn ...eh ...debatable. Depends on how feminine they are i guess. i mean i've watched some trans porn, and im not gay. BUT they were super feminine, to the point i wouldn't know any better if i walked past them in the street, and I can usually pick them out of a crowed very easily. Though i guess im talking about Trans ..not femboy ..so ....

EDIT: I also very rarely ever watch Trans porn ,, i choose Futa Hentai over it any day..

It is gay in fiction as well and in porn. There is nothing wrong with that, but let us call apples what they are: gay af.

 

[HTYYHRK]

Gayer than a dude in assless chaps fucking a dude in a dog costume at a Pride Parade in the Tenderloin. While listening to OK2BGAY.

 

[kuraiken]

I'd argue the opposite.
If you're not into feminine boys, that means you don't appreciate femininity enough.
And that makes you real gay.
This is irony. Don't take sexuality so serious. Be comfortable with whatever you are or aren't and stop obsessing over if you might be gay or what % of gay you might be.

 

[maner]

I am straight, no doubt in my mind, I will never fall in love with a fellow dude EVER but shit man, femboys makin me second think myself. I can justify myself by saying that I like the feminine features, but what do y'all think this gay or not?

note: I have watched a single femboy porn vid ever in my life, just the generic BJ no segs, didn't fap to it but it was hot.

Yes, you're gay or bi. You’re attracted to men—but a specific type, not all of them. Just like I’m attracted to women, but not all kinds of women.
But, there’s nothing wrong with liking men, women, both, or neither. It’s not a big deal — or at least, it shouldn’t be.

 

[PapaQ]

Who cares? It's just a label. You don't decide what you're attracted to. Just enjoy it, if you are.

 

[Deleted member 162149]

The way I look at it: "Is my dick bigger?"

If mines bigger, then totally not gay.

That's why I never go into the bedroom without a measuring stick. Can't be too careful.

 

[Zoral64]

The real question should be "Does anyone care?"
I mean, sexuality is a spectrum and a persons individual tastes and interests can shift back and forth over time. I was "straight" for most of my life and then, when I got older, I decided I didn't care anymore. Came out as bi-, then adjusted to pan-, now I'm a demi- (which kinda "translates to "I don't care what they have in their pants, if the emotional connection is good, we'll probably be fucking")
Or maybe the real questions should be "Does anyone important to you, as an individual, really care?"
Idk, thats just my thoughts when it comes to the straight/gay discussion

 

[GarbageMan89]

That's why I never go into the bedroom without a measuring stick. Can't be too careful.

Nah, I just compare tip to base. If it's a tie, then we have a swordfight to determine dominance.

 

[Deleted member 162149]

Nah, I just compare tip to base. If it's a tie, then we have a swordfight to determine dominance.

Good call! It's gay if the tips touch, but if it results in a duel with a clear winner, that is masculine and thus, not gay.

It's listed as the Conquest Exception in section 4 of the No Homo Handbook.

 

[KaySwitchPrime]

Yes it is gay, but you can call it bi or queer as well. Nothing wrong with any of those.

 

[burnaman]

I suspect you already know the answer.....

 

[fairway]

I mean, it certainly ain't straight.

In my probably-unpopular opinion, 90% of the mental gymnastics over gender come from people who have some gay tendencies but for whatever reason don't want to admit it to themselves. That's where you get bizarre shit like people claiming that a dude sucking dick is 100% not-gay because the dick owner identifies as femme. That's... well, it's just silly. (Imagine someone sucking a line of dicks at a glory hole but saying that's not gay because it's possible some of the males on the other side identify as women.)

Just accept that you've got some gay tendencies, learn to be comfortable with that. Maybe the line of maximum gayness you can handle is that they need a feminine body type, but you're still attracted to dick. That's fine, but yes, it's gay. Does that make you gay? Only a few % points. It's just where you are on a spectrum.

TL,DR: Just man TFU and accept you're a little bit gay, it won't hurt you. Don't try to pivot the world's language and definitions around your self image, just update the image.

 

[Marlog]

"is it gay to like femboys?

 

[kuraiken]

"is it gay to like femboys?

Are you into women?

 

[AdeptN69]

I am straight, no doubt in my mind, I will never fall in love with a fellow dude EVER but shit man, femboys makin me second think myself. I can justify myself by saying that I like the feminine features, but what do y'all think this gay or not?

note: I have watched a single femboy porn vid ever in my life, just the generic BJ no segs, didn't fap to it but it was hot.

You're Bi...at least cause i dont know the spectrum of sexuality. You prefer relationship/emotion with females BUT sexually you are attracted to *people* that are feminine. No problem with that so just keep enjoying what you enjoy and stop worrying about what others view you as

 

[USER_6969]

I am straight, no doubt in my mind, I will never fall in love with a fellow dude EVER but shit man, femboys makin me second think myself. I can justify myself by saying that I like the feminine features, but what do y'all think this gay or not?

note: I have watched a single femboy porn vid ever in my life, just the generic BJ no segs, didn't fap to it but it was hot.

Well they do say "Don't knock it until you try it". Maybe it could just be the best sex that you have ever had.

 

[MattShizzle]

Well they do say "Don't knock it until you try it". Maybe it could just be the best sex that you have ever had.

"I ain't messin' with no Oscar Meyer Weiner." - Tone Loc.

 

[Cocaine]

I used to think it wasn't, but an encounter with an irl femboy changed my mind. Very, very gay, but also fucking hot.