discussion Making Society Fetish Friendly

[User_120651]

How would you go about it and what would you want the outcomes to be?

 

[ArtoriasABW]

I won't, I don't feel the need to express my fetishes or want to be normalized, and I definitely don't want to hear other people fetishes in a casual conversation.

 

[leomgr69]

As long as I'm free to enjoy I really don't need society to think I'm friendly.

 

[User_48178]

Sex should remain private. Even ignoring the fact that children are also part of society and shouldn't be exposed to this shit, there's a lot of situations where you don't want to know people's fetishes. Adopt a live and let live philosophy and let private matters stay private.

 

[AlBetGam]

Society is already fetish-friendly, in that most people accept that a wide array of fetishes exists and few of them care what yours are so long as you keep it to yourself and it isn't anything harmful to you or others.

You won't get much more than that and I wouldn't advise trying- especially if your fetish is a particular one popular on this site.

 

[Ani_Sloven]

Agreeing with a lot of others here.

There's a time and place for things. While I imagine there are fetishes that blend private and public together. I think a vast majority would rather have themselves and others keep their kinks private.

But if you mean "friendly" as in getting a response like "Wow, so that's your kink? Good for you.". That's really just going to be up to the personality of who your talking to, rather than society as whole.

 

[gladtobehere]

Fetish should be something private that you only share with your partner, so I agree with the others here. Unless you're talking about a hentai scenario, then Kenzen! series would be it.

 

[User_111574]

I discuss my fetishes freely, but only with family members (i.e my wife). With others - no, and I would not like to do it. Intimacy is intimate, it's only about the people I've been intimate with, but no one else. Even considering the fact that my fetishes are vanilla, the most extreme variant is foot fetish, but why what is allowed to Tarantino is not allowed to me?

 

[korochan48]

There is nothing wrong with fetish just keep it private.

 

[Itsme]

I think everyone has a fetish and from a scientific point of view it would be interesting to hear about other people's fetishes and which ones are more present than others. But on the other hand it's a very private thing and not everybody want to talk about or want that others know. I talked with friends about fetishes in a neutral and adult way and it was interesting.

 

[smiley789]

I think lurking is too ingrained in half of these fetish's for it to be like talked about, even on here were only talking at all cause its basically anonymous though i think most of us have some sexualized society fantasy like i like the sexual nature of society in desert stalker

 

[User_120869]

I feel like a fetish, by its own definition, is something that goes against the society norm. Therefore, if you make a fetish, a deviant behavior, normal then it's not a fetish anymore.

 

[MystrageX]

think all fetishes should be normalized as long as everything that is done With Mutual Consent

 

[Karamchad]

Hand holding should be more common.

 

[HandholdDegen]

I don't think society has ever been so fetish friendly before. Some might even argue we need to tone it down a bit because expressing sexuality is becoming so normalized that tiktok, instagram, snapchat, etc. are having major problems preventing children to spreading their sexual expression all over the internet and into the DMs of predators.

I don't think we should move to a fetish friendly society, but instead a society that is neutral towards sexuality - neither taboo, nor venerated as a status symbol.

 

[dreski]

I wouldn't really care/want any of my fetishes to be normalized I think the point of many fetishes is that they are what they are because of societal norms or else they wouldn't be as good if that makes sense.

 

[MangoSkull]

I feel like a fetish, by its own definition, is something that goes against the society norm. Therefore, if you make a fetish, a deviant behavior, normal then it's not a fetish anymore.

exactly what I was gonna write but said better

 

[User_40809]

Almost everyone has a fetish. But one person's fetish may be bizarre to another person.

 

[osiris789]

More sexually open society? Sure, but I don't really think I want to hear about other people's fetishes