discussion Women on this site?

[LewdSardin]

I'm lesbian, so i like to hunt girls and dont like dicks. The difference is: I prefer to do it with female protagonists.

We are alike on that one, you want 0 and I want 0 or 1

They are always easy to get, forgive everything (nothing against open relationships or harems, but if the girls dont know about the others, the protagonist is just a cheating asshole).

I don't mind the easy to get ones, depending on the game/story, but I would prefer a more realistic slow burn with (kinda) believable reasons for it. Unless the mc isn't going to get any long term meaningful LI's I don't like cheating. Harems might not be realistic, but at least I can have stable relationships with whomever I find to be an interesting character. I don't like the inevitable tears and breakup that comes with cheating.

People say its a common kink to have rape fantasies, but i never met a single girl with them, instead i know many with trauma from rape, hell, its one of my core duties in our shelter to fix the victims of rape, blackmail and outright slavery. So these things dont have the slightest appeal for me.

Most of the "rape" in these games is to one degree or other "romanticised", meaning it doesn't reflect the horror of the real thing. I'm following a game (Malignant) that offers the choice to follow a really dark path, I gave it a look and it is much more realistic (not my cup of tea at all). Any fantasies any woman might have about "rape" will fit more in the roleplay category than the real thing, imho. The real thing feels worse than murder in some ways (and I'm a male)
Personal experiences will color your views on things, so I'm not surprised yours, from the shelter, will turn you away from even the non realistic versions. I can't imagine being able to flip a switch between such extremes. Keep up the good work though! Sad it is needed, glad people like you are available.

What i want? Female protagonists with female harem. There are enough slut simulators and hetero harem games, but lesbian harems rare gems.

"Variety is the spice of life", so I would like some lesbian games as well Don't like playing a female if she's just going to be a slut to others, getting railed by men.

How do you feel about a futa mc? I gave the recent 'A Home In The Desert' a try and it looks promising.

Also: I have seen Yuri university in passing, renders look great and has positive reviews. Was going to wait for it to finish (as usual), but might not now

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@Loliholic (I really like your nickname btw! )What about Actual Roommates? Female protag, lesbian only & harem? (Just found it)

 

[Sarya]

I spend quite a lot of time in sites like here and also in some incest enthusiasts community web site. I see a lot of women and gender minorities people. The idea that women are less horny and kinky than men is untrue.

Many of them don't talk about their gender, because in a masculine dominated community like that, it sometimes led to unwanted propositions, sexual harassment or bullying.

 

[LewdSardin]

Many of them don't talk about their gender, because in a masculine dominated community like that, it sometimes led to unwanted propositions, sexual harassment or bullying.

I can imagine that being true, sadly.
But unless they become more visible the stereotype of there being only males interested in this will prevail
I'm grateful at least some here are willing to be open about it and share their point of view Hopefully they'll find this site and community to be accepting of and civil to that

 

[Sarya]

I can imagine that being true, sadly.
But unless they become more visible the stereotype of there being only males interested in this will prevail
I'm grateful at least some here are willing to be open about it and share their point of view Hopefully they'll find this site and community to be accepting of and civil to that

I think there is both a need for women and gender minorities to be more visible on this site and in our communities in general, and also a need for men to be more inclusive and to make everyone feel safe.

Personally i'm non binary transfeminine and a bit of a catgirl too.

 

[UnknownScript7]

I remember someone said: "everyone on the internet is a man until proven otherwise"​

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probably Nelson Mandela​

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[Loliholic]

@LewdSardin
Put a dick on a girl and its still a dick...but not a girl anymore. As said, lesbian, nothing with a dick is acceptable but futa are even worse then guys.

Dont know it yet, i'll check it out, thx.

 

[LewdSardin]

Put a dick on a girl and its still a dick...but not a girl anymore. As said, lesbian, nothing with a dick is acceptable but futa are even worse then guys.

This is interesting, I didn't fully comprehend your "no dicks" preference. To see futa as even worse is something I need time to wrap my head around Too bad it's impossible for me to truly look at it from your perspective

This is what I was getting at about sharing point of views: new understandings! So exciting! (intellectually, you perverts!)

Dont know it yet, i'll check it out, thx.

You're welcome, hope you like it! Would be interesting to compare experiences, I never played such a female centric game before.

 

[Sarya]

Trans men tend to be quite popular with cis women because 1) many of them have dicks 2) they don't think with their dicks. 3) they don't only think about their own pleasure, but also the one of their partners (unlike many cis men). 4) they know where the clit is 5) they remember when they were considered girls, so they don't do macho bullshit.

Trans women lose privileges men have in our society as they lose the testo. Most of them weren't fully considered men to begin with, because they were considered too effeminate. So many of us are really nice, despite being massively discriminate and bullied, i don't understand why you think women with dicks are bad.

Anyway, statistically, most assholes are cis men. 98% of people in prison in my country are cis men, that's even more than that if you only consider violent crimes. Data look the same in most other western countries.

This is what I was getting at about sharing point of views: new understandings! So exciting! (intellectually, you perverts!)

As i always say, brain is the first sexual organ and one we all share (even if for some people i have doubt).

 

[Skrotum]

I think on this site are more woman born with male sexual organs, than women born with female sexual organs. I guess on this site are more people that fantasize about sex with animals, than women born with female sexual organs.

 

[LewdSardin]

i don't understand why you think women with dicks are bad.

Different viewpoints, different desires, different turnoffs

Anyway, statistically, most assholes are cis men.

Incorrect use of statistics! Unless you meant percentage wise compared to their each group?
Still, don't forget there are bitches too, males do not have a monopoly on anti social behavior

As i always say, brain is the first sexual organ and one we all share (even if for some people i have doubt).

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[Sarya]

Different viewpoints, different desires, different turnoffs

Incorrect use of statistics! Unless you meant percentage wise compared to their each group?
Still, don't forget there are bitches too, males do not have a monopoly on anti social behavior

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There is a difference between not being attract to trans people, something i totally understand and hating all trans people.

98% of people in prison are cis men. Almost all the other 2% are cis women. Trans and not binary people aren't even representing 1% of penal population (so even less than their part in total population). So technically cis men should be considered at risk population for crimes but they aren't. If there would be this kind of data for any minorities, there would be drastic action, but it's about men who are dominant group, so almost nobody care.

I'm pretty sure i do a right use of stats, i have master degree in sociology after all haha

 

[LewdSardin]

If only a fraction of a population commits heavy crimes (=jail time), and only a tiny fraction of a population deviates from their natural gender, then the odds that a fraction of a tiny fraction is going to find much representation (never mind compared to the much larger group) is going to be veeery small

There is a difference between not being attract to trans people, something i totally understand and hating all trans people.

I do not think she hates trans people, she just doesn't want any dicks whatsoever. Finding a futa worse than a male isn't about hate, imo, just a combination that's sexually off putting, but I'm still trying to understand her pov. It would be easier if I could find an equivalent for me to compare to, but I don't think I have such a specific feeling towards anything
I just find it

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[Sarya]

If only a fraction of a population commits heavy crimes (=jail time), and only a tiny fraction of a population deviates from their natural gender, then the odds that a fraction of a tiny fraction is going to find much representation (never mind compared to the much larger group) is going to be veeery small

I do not think she hates trans people, she just doesn't want any dicks whatsoever. Finding a futa worse than a male isn't about hate, imo, just a combination that's sexually off putting, but I'm still trying to understand her pov. It would be easier if I could find an equivalent for me to compare to, but I don't think I have such a specific feeling towards anything
I just find it

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Thinking jail time=heavy crimes is a belief many people have but that's not true in reality. Most people in prison are there for something petty: drunken brawls, stealing, drug abuse or dealing... Well they are mostly in because they are poor.

I spend five years as a volunteer doing prison visits so i know that much.

Men are like 50% of total population but 98% of penal population. You're playing with words, but what's important is cis men are largely overrepresented among perpetrators of crimes, according to data, even if we take into account other factors that are linked to increased crime rate. So i think humans should have a reflection about how we change that, like we would do if it was a minority that have such bad crime stats.

 

[Loliholic]

This is interesting, I didn't fully comprehend your "no dicks" preference. To see futa as even worse is something I need time to wrap my head around Too bad it's impossible for me to truly look at it from your perspective

Thats easy to explain:
Guys are disgusting, some more, some less, but they are always completely repulsive.
Futa on the other hand can induce my thirst for pussy and then - dick.
Thank goth most of these mutants are ugly cows with big udders, fat asses and no appeal. But some are a waste of assets and cause a mix of anger and disgust, especially when devs dont reveal this "detail" in the text before i need to see it.

 

[Sarya]

In my opinion, that's good to have an option with dick but without all flaws men have. And that's always mention in the tags when there is a trans/futa character which is still quite rare. So i kinda agree on your vision of guys but your vision of futa (who doesn't even exist in real life, i mean there is nobody with both a dick and a pussy, unfortunately) is far-fetched.

 

[Sarya]

Are you sure about that? You might want to look that up.

In humans, there is no proven case of it. There is intersex people, but with full both genital it doesn't happen. But it exists in some animals species.

 

[WLMS]

Do we have women here too?..

There are no women on the internet, it's nothing more than plain myth. Everyone knows that.

 

[ItsTheWolfMan]

There are no women on the internet, it's nothing more than plain myth. Everyone knows that.

Speaking of this sort of copy-pasta, I like to think that the original intent behind it must be a way for women to be able to relax online without dealing with misogyny. Maybe some women would rather be treated like one of the guys.

 

[WLMS]

must be a way for women to be able to relax online without dealing with misogyny. Maybe some women would rather be treated like one of the guys.

I think you are very on point here

 

[whydoineedto]

There are no women on the internet... anyone trying to claim otherwise needs to provide proof, dems the rules.

Speaking of this sort of copy-pasta, I like to think that the original intent behind it must be a way for women to be able to relax online without dealing with misogyny. Maybe some women would rather be treated like one of the guys.

You like to think so as a way of rejecting the original intent and having a head-canon? because the original intent was very much on the other side of the fence...