I have searched for a) vr erotic games that you can play without occupying both hands and maybe a foot to control xyz movements plus interactions. Clearly this is an issue for most for fairly obvious reasons. Additionally, they are often programmed for the controller(s) I don't have. I have an occulus and I have also used an xbox controller. Also wsad + whatever mystery keys the game uses but never provides a key to. And b) Games that work at all and have good erotic and or kinky scenes.
I do have a short list of what I like, but that is very individual of course. And it is a short list. I have a bunch of others that I try to 'decode' once in a while, try to figure out how to control them.
Anyway, as I said, you can start with those other sites.