I believe ntr is purely cheating and usually is about diminishing or putting down the SO. then I believe sharing can go both ways where on one side there is an agreement between both parties and everyone is happy. and on the otherside one party member is being tossed around to be used
out of the hoyoverse I mostly play star rail. you quickly realize how much of a time sink those games are and star rail feels the least like a time sink.
I've always been quiet and a bit of a loner even as a kid. usually played games on my own. only exciting thing I remember is going on summer trips where I would be able to play with tons of fireworks and firecrackers and the such. like an absurd amount since a family members job was making them...
personally doesn't do much for me, seems dumb to me but usually other anime "gestures" irks me more. like the tiktok shit. idk what's it's called but the stupid hand bobbing shit usually with tiktok MHA brain rot.