It really depends for me what kind of game I am playing. Sometimes I pick choices I would do if I was in the situation. Other times I simply try out different options to see what would happen. I often find it hard though to immerse myself in the games since most of them are pretty far from any...
I have played a lot of games that I have enjoyed even though the tags wasnt right up my alleyway. Humor often makes some tags easier to accept in games and also if they can be avoided through choice.
I can find both entertaining but normally I just play them for the story like reading a book or a graphic novel. Some exceptions are if the game has rpg elements in them or like Summertime Saga that brings back nostalgic memories of playing adventure games on my pc in the nineties.
For me it would be the games with abnormaly huge tits and if they have the "censored" tag. Other tags sometimes makes sense in certain games and I can live with it so I try not to judge a book by its cover. :D
For me it was Princess Mononoke and Ninja Scroll. A friend of mine introduced me to anime around 25 years ago. Studio Gibli films are still among some of my all time favorite movies.
I have only played some games with real porn videos in them. Normally they dont do anything for me and I prefer animated scenes. Girl´s Life is maybe one of the exceptions of games I enjoyed even though it had real porn in them.